Water Tiger 08 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I recently met a lady who has a long running interest in an area that I have had for a very long time as well, so we have some very strong points of connection. I am very attracted to her, I don't necessarily want to marry her but I certainly want to be romantic with her. I've taken her out a couple times. It was always very cordial and full of good conversation. Lots of eye contact and being in close proximity. However I feel at times there's kind of a stopping short, we have not kissed, but really only came to a sort of close enough physical encounter to try it out may be once. Just hugs that seem to last longer each time. I took her to The Dark Knight a few nights ago and it didn't seem to go as well, she was tired although she's very gracious. We sat together of course and our arms were touching but we weren't really leaning into each other. As the movie ended as we went back to our cars we hugged again and agreed to keep in touch. The hug as a little nicer but I could have tried to kiss her but I didn't get a strong "yes" feeling to do so. Is anyone getting a vibe from what I'm talking about here. This is a very pretty lady, whom is rare because we have the same interests long term and I'm really interested i pursuing (and being with her) romantically. I'm going to see her again next weekend, but I feel caught in a situation where I want to do something but I'm not sure she does as well. I feel I might have been too hesitant this time around or behaved a little too non-confidently and I keep going over it in my mind. Anyone have any advice. TY Curtis
Suiyobi Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Man when I read your story it felt so much like reliving an event that happened earlier this Summer with me and this other girl. All I can say is put on your game and take things a little slowly but never lose that sexual tension between the two of you or eventually she'll just see you as a friend. The problem is, she might already see you as a friend and you just never noticed it... Well, such is the way of life.
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