tpittock Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 I have been separated now for 3 weeks. My wife wanted this and I have been so in love with her. My heart and soul seem broken and shattered. My therapist said to not talk to her in any way for a week to see her response. I am hurting. Help Me please. Tom
journey1 Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 Sorry that you are feeling as crappy as the rest of us!! Did your wife leave becaue she is with someone else??? Was there another reason???? All i know is in my situation I feel that he was able to let me go after a fight becasue he had something else, something with less value and easier to deal with. Usually people have back up plans.....Did she??? I hope not , I just dont want you to be blindsided if you havent considered this a possibilty! Yea DO NOT CONTACT HER. I did good for 9 days and messed it up and it really hasnt gotten me anywhere. he texts here an dthere but nothing that would make me hopeful or happy. Stay in control and think about making her miss you. the more you stay away the more she will think about you and what she is throwing away!
Author tpittock Posted August 10, 2008 Author Posted August 10, 2008 Shes sais I am a great compassionate loving lying man. She would back me into a corner and get me frustrated and upset and the first thing out of my mouth would most likely be not the truth. I just can think under intense emotional stress. She sais she loves me but I think she wants me to spend my $28000 check on paying off all her bills.
replicator Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 Sorry to hear about your relationship. Many of us on this side of the forum have been there are are there right now.. It feels life shattering when you feel like you're losing everything that matters to you. It's a long and hard road, but hang in there!
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