stacyk Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 :lmao:i have no idea why but after being together for a year my boyfriend will not talk to me. he refuses. i didn't do anything. i know that for a fact. up till last weekend all was great. the only communication i got was a text saying dont call or text. of course that hurt, and i got angrier. i trusted him and believed that when he said he loves me, he did. i feel so betrayed and hurt. i feel like i cant breath at times. feeling like this is the worst. how do you understand when it doesn't make sense?
Ronni_W Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 After dating a year, that IS strange and confusing behaviour. But it doesn't mean that he didn't love you at the time that he said it. That is over-dramatic thinking that will leave you feeling worse instead of better. Is it possible that he received some very traumatic news? Perhaps the death of a loved one, or diagnosis of serious/terminal illness that either he or a family member is facing? If you have a trusted mutual friend, you could consider asking about your ex's health and well-being (grilling the friend for "answers" will just put him/her in a difficult spot.) No matter the reason, though, your ex is demonstrating under-developed communication skills, and minimal or no understanding of the effect that he has on other people. You may never get the information that'll help you make sense of his actions. (((hugs)))
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