LoyalGirl Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Stoopid Guy, You explain your marriage as lacking in intimacy, and a business relationship. Would your wife care or be surprised about you having an affair? Just curious...
porter218 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 The "pay as you go" should be hidden, of course. Carrying a second phone around would definately arouse interest. It was. but I found it, nothing gets by me for long. I found it in his tackle box. Then went through it and called everyone and read all the texts. Then I hacked the account to see everything he had been up to.
NewSunrise Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 The "pay as you go" should be hidden, of course. Carrying a second phone around would definately arouse interest. Yeah, good luck! Found 3 MCI prepaid calling cards XWS hid all over the house and garage. Your premeditation on how to cheat without getting caught reminds me of a con artist who is about to pull a heist. Chilling psychotic.
Author stoopid_guy Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Stoopid Guy, You explain your marriage as lacking in intimacy, and a business relationship. Would your wife care or be surprised about you having an affair? Just curious... I'd say it's more than a business relationship. We're friends, we talk (about most things.) Our senses of humor are similar. We enjoy being around each other, at least most of the time. She would care, but I'm not sure how much. She would be surprised, she simply cannot relate to the need for intimacy. Your premeditation on how to cheat without getting caught reminds me of a con artist who is about to pull a heist. Chilling psychotic. Lots of folks think about things outside of what is generally acceptable, look at the popularity of mystery/crime novels and shows. All choices in life are based on reward versus risk. We all make such choices daily, and the right choice for some may not be the right choice for others.
NewSunrise Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 Lots of folks think about things outside of what is generally acceptable, look at the popularity of mystery/crime novels and shows. All choices in life are based on reward versus risk. We all make such choices daily, and the right choice for some may not be the right choice for others. Except these popular mystery/crime novels and shows are based on fiction. You're playing with people's lives and emotions. You're right, ALL choices in life are based on reward versus risk. YOU get all the rewards by getting your winky played by your unsuspecting wife and your OW. The risk to your unsuspecting W is STD which could be her death sentence. This ain't no fiction, stoopid guy. It's reality!
Author stoopid_guy Posted August 23, 2008 Author Posted August 23, 2008 You're right, ALL choices in life are based on reward versus risk. YOU get all the rewards by getting your winky played by your unsuspecting wife and your OW. The risk to your unsuspecting W is STD which could be her death sentence. This ain't no fiction, stoopid guy. It's reality! My reward is keeping my family-life and having a love-life. STDs? Over the last several years I've only had intimate contact with one woman, it just wasn't the woman I'm married to. The chance of me giving an STD to my wife is zero. For that matter, the chance of me getting an STD is extremely low considering the nature of the OW. Anyhow.... In the "hypothetical" original list, point #11 addresses use precautions. My original intent here was not to support affairs, but to examine one aspect of the choice to have an affair.
NewSunrise Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 My reward is keeping my family-life and having a love-life. STDs? Over the last several years I've only had intimate contact with one woman, it just wasn't the woman I'm married to. The chance of me giving an STD to my wife is zero. For that matter, the chance of me getting an STD is extremely low considering the nature of the OW. Anyhow.... In the "hypothetical" original list, point #11 addresses use precautions. My original intent here was not to support affairs, but to examine one aspect of the choice to have an affair. Hmmm....a cake-eater, me-me-me deal. You said it. All choices have risks. One of them is the risk of losing your pseudo "happy" family life.
greengoddess Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Ahhh stooopid guy. Apppropriate name. You have no idea the pain you will cause if you get caught. You with your preplanned list of how to deceive your wife will have no chance at reconcilliation. None because you won't be devastated or remourseful you will just be sorry you got caught. Have you told your wife you are not happy with your sex life? I think that would be the best starting point. It sounds like you do love your wife and kids and you are going to really screw that up. Another forseeable problem, what if you fall in love with the ow instead of just viewing her as a toy? Are you ready to destroy your family unit?
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