curlgrl21 Posted August 9, 2008 Share Posted August 9, 2008 so i have been with this guy for about three and a half years and i thought that everything was going fine. Last tuesday he comes home from work and tells me that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me anymore. He swears that it is not because of someone else and i do honestly believe him. He is spending all of his time with his one friend. To make things worse he is mad at everyone in his family and no one really knows why. He told me that he has been feeling this way for months but never said anything to me about it. He also said that he still loves me. A couple of days later he said that he never cared about me at all. I dont know what is going on with him. I love him with all of my heart but i dont know what to do. does he still love me? everyone in his family thinks that there is something else bothering him...(he is not very good at talking about what is wrong with him he would rather keep it all bottled up inside) and that he is just taking it out on me. I dont know what to do please help. Link to post Share on other sites
SweetTux Posted August 10, 2008 Share Posted August 10, 2008 wow curlgrl I dunno what to say... Your situation is weird but his family might be right about him taking it out on you.. Has anything bad happened lately? Do you know if he has started doing drugs or anything? Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 Sounds like some sort of a drug-induced response. And he was totally baiting you when he began with: "I don't know if I want to be with you anymore". (UNLESS you provoked him before that) People like that are best forgotten. I mean, can you imagine walking into a room and initiating a conversation with: "I don't know if I want to be with you anymore". You're just begging to get a reaction from someone... and that sucks! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 There are many possibilities why someone would start to withdraw from the world. I can only list a few that come immediately to mind: He's overly stressed and depressed.The one friend is somehow managing to influence him to the point where he trusts and likes no one else, creating a codependency.Drugs.Far reaching thought, is it possible he's gay? Link to post Share on other sites
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