Myzterio Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Hey guys, It's been a while since Ive posted but I hope I can get some input on whats going on here! Five months ago today, my ex girlfriend broke up with me over many issues. My anger, my rapid weight gain( from depression), depression, getting into trouble and last but not least .. my cold brutal heart. I was the biggest ******* alive to her and she had every right to break up with me. I did the usual guy thing, pleading, begging, desperate to get back with her, promised i would change, rapid phone calls, sending a billion text messages and that pushed her to the limit (all the way to june, we had numerous phone calls, broke up around april.) It ended in, "I regret you, get out of my life" and she seemed that she moved on and put a strict NC against me. I finally man'd up and did the same. I grew some balls and decided to move on without her even though it hurts very much. This whole summer was all to me, I'm in the best shape of my freaking life, I've lost all the weight I gained from depression, I'm very confident now(something I lost at the end of the relationship) and I'm just doing amazing now. It's sad to say that I really wanted the girl back, Now.. I really don't even want to talk to her anymore. Deep down inside, there's some feelings to her but, I just don't see us together anymore until we reconnect and work things out(which i believe they can be). I'm not making a move as I was called a regret and was told to get out of her life. To get to the point of this story, Her mom called me today and the last contact from her was around early June. She was checking up on me and seeing how i was doing, reminding me that she's here for me and she asked how im doing i replied "im doing amazing", she was shocked and she asked me to come pick up these free six flags tickets and I told her i worked. She was amazed now that I work and she sees that im doing amazing. Her mom's a sweetheart, but I don't plan on talking to her daughter no further. We have dated for 2 year's and maybe even more, first love(amazing relationship till the end). I give her one thing, I applaud what she's done. She opened my eyes and made me notice what the hell im doing to myself, She's always wanted me to change for the good, the better. She didn't accomplish that, I've accomplished that but without what she did, I would be in the same mindset i was five months ago. I'm graduating High school this year and I'm going to study in Egypt at one of the best Medical school's majoring in Sport Medicine Doctor. Is this a sign of her coming back? The EX would always get her mom to call me when we would have a fight. I'm very shocked at my posts that I've posted during the duration of me being here. I've totally grown up.
nowhereman82 Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Glad to hear you too the initiative to self improvement and didn't sit back and do nothing With you going to medical school in Egypt do you feel you should stir up these old feelings with the ex, or stir up hers if she has them? Sounds like you have a big road ahead of you and getting back with her right now could put a road bump in your way. Should ask yourself....if you tried to get back with her and it succeeded ....would you put off school or would she be willing to move with you....
Melrapuo Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Hey guys, It's been a while since Ive posted but I hope I can get some input on whats going on here! Five months ago today, my ex girlfriend broke up with me over many issues. My anger, my rapid weight gain( from depression), depression, getting into trouble and last but not least .. my cold brutal heart. I was the biggest ******* alive to her and she had every right to break up with me. I did the usual guy thing, pleading, begging, desperate to get back with her, promised i would change, rapid phone calls, sending a billion text messages and that pushed her to the limit (all the way to june, we had numerous phone calls, broke up around april.) It ended in, "I regret you, get out of my life" and she seemed that she moved on and put a strict NC against me. I finally man'd up and did the same. I grew some balls and decided to move on without her even though it hurts very much. This whole summer was all to me, I'm in the best shape of my freaking life, I've lost all the weight I gained from depression, I'm very confident now(something I lost at the end of the relationship) and I'm just doing amazing now. It's sad to say that I really wanted the girl back, Now.. I really don't even want to talk to her anymore. Deep down inside, there's some feelings to her but, I just don't see us together anymore until we reconnect and work things out(which i believe they can be). I'm not making a move as I was called a regret and was told to get out of her life. To get to the point of this story, Her mom called me today and the last contact from her was around early June. She was checking up on me and seeing how i was doing, reminding me that she's here for me and she asked how im doing i replied "im doing amazing", she was shocked and she asked me to come pick up these free six flags tickets and I told her i worked. She was amazed now that I work and she sees that im doing amazing. Her mom's a sweetheart, but I don't plan on talking to her daughter no further. We have dated for 2 year's and maybe even more, first love(amazing relationship till the end). I give her one thing, I applaud what she's done. She opened my eyes and made me notice what the hell im doing to myself, She's always wanted me to change for the good, the better. She didn't accomplish that, I've accomplished that but without what she did, I would be in the same mindset i was five months ago. I'm graduating High school this year and I'm going to study in Egypt at one of the best Medical school's majoring in Sport Medicine Doctor. Is this a sign of her coming back? The EX would always get her mom to call me when we would have a fight. I'm very shocked at my posts that I've posted during the duration of me being here. I've totally grown up. The mom calling you doesn't necessarily confirm that the ex is trying to find out what your life is doing, but if you put a good enough impression on her mom im sure she will at some point relay the news to your ex. Keep focusing on yourself. If anything will come out of it, your ex will let you know.
kizik Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Um... you need to politely tell the mom to stop contacting you. Contact with the ex's family will keep you from healing. Mom needs to realize this too. Cut all ties with the ex, including and especially her family.
Author Myzterio Posted August 9, 2008 Author Posted August 9, 2008 Thank you for the replies guys. I will indeed continue to work on myself, i mean if it does happen then its meant to be! Kizik, As much as your right, Quiet frankly, I cant do that. I have no reason or even think about telling her to stop contacting me! She hasn't done anything wrong to me, so be it if she tells my EX what im up to these days. She has helped me through many things, from personal problems to financially. I respect her for that deeply, she treats me as if as a son.
Author Myzterio Posted August 10, 2008 Author Posted August 10, 2008 Her mom called me last night (morning) to see how I was doing at all, We talked for about two minutes because I was at work, I was really behind things. It ended in a "if you need anything, just give me a call". Pretty cool. I also asked her if she wanted a senior picture of myself, she then replied with "sure sweety, drop it off anytime". I'm not sure where this is going but I'm going to continue on with my life and doing what i've been doing for the past three-four months.
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