celinedion1 Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 So for some dumb reason I just went to a online site where my ex bf posts about his life. He told everyone how generous he is and how everyone else comes first in his life and how he comes 2nd. That is so far from the truth. He's a shelfish guy who only really cares about himself and no one else. He gives a lot of his money to people who he doesnt know, mainly homeless people, friends who have jobs, and people who he meets online and who hes never met in person. I know I shouldn't of read this posts about his life because now im soooooo pissed off. When he and I were together he never bought me anything. He told me that since i have family that he doesnt need to buy me things or give me money for things. However he gives money to homeless people, money to friends of his who have jobs and who are in their 50's, and he even gave money to some girl online who hes never met. After reading that I honestly don't think I want him in my life anymore. We were working things out and getting back together but how can I be with someone who's so fake???
saams Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Imo give him a chance to explain himself first, there might be more to it then just that. and honestly if you are working things out and you love eachother then dont let a stupid thing like money come inbetween. I think you should give him a chance to explain himself and if he doesnt have a reasonable excuse then let him know how you feel about it.
Author celinedion1 Posted August 10, 2008 Author Posted August 10, 2008 He told me that this online website is like his 2nd life. On this website he has a gf who he tells he loves, however at the same time hes telling me that he wants to marry me.
saams Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 you should give him hell for that... not saying you should break it off or anything but give him serious time in hell for that >< Imo give him 1 chance to proove hes love and if he is not willing to change then move on and forget about him.
Author celinedion1 Posted August 11, 2008 Author Posted August 11, 2008 you should give him hell for that... not saying you should break it off or anything but give him serious time in hell for that >< Imo give him 1 chance to proove hes love and if he is not willing to change then move on and forget about him. Well I guess I really shouldnt care since he and i arent together, however we were trying to work things out.
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 There are a lot of people who fake who they are on internet sites. It sounds like your b/f is no exception. Isn't this the exb/f who cheated on you? If so, cheating normally incorporates the strong element of lying or lying by omission.
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