tikster Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 well there are so many details to this affair but i'll condense it and if you need more info just ask well the ex and i broke up almost two years ago. he kept breaking my heart and then a few months down the line would contact me and we'd become friends and start some relationship and at some point, after everything's been put out there, he tells me he didn't mean it and we are just friends. this has happened 4 f'in times. well this last time i finally lost it. i am still hurting from his betrayal over the years and then last weekend i asked him over to watch a movie, in fact he was asking me to come over. but the night he was to come over he never called so i figured he stood me up but didn't make a big deal out of it and sent him a text asking if he didn't wanna see me. so he left me a drunk voicemail about him just getting back from a party. i refused to respond to that and never called him back. and he never called me and he knew i was upset. i wouldn't have stopped him from going to that party. all i wanted was for him to let me know, kno what i mean? common decency so at work, 7 days and no apology or contact whatsoever, i finally lost it. i told him i'm so f'in sick of him and his using me. i told him since he tells me there are so many girls after him that he should mess around with them and leave me alone since i'm so insignificant. i treated him like crap today and normally i would never feel soo angry or treat anyone this way, but he really deserves it. i finally know what it feels like to really send him packing and have no feelings for him anymore. it's liberating, but i'm still soo mad. he acted like it didn't phase him and he's going gambling all weekend so i'm sure he didn't even care. after my telling him that his partying and not contacting me hurt me he kept saying that he didn't think it was a big deal and he still didn't even apologize. i'm just so done with him. i only wish i wasn't so stupid those other times and that this happened sooner.
Hopelessly_Devoted Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Learn from those mistakes and don't allow yourself to be used by him or anyone ever again!
0hpenelope Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Good for you! You knew that you were the enabler and you finally put your foot down. I was an enabler once, too. It's easier for me to tell myself that he doesn't care and whatever I hear about him from other people supports that. When people say "Actions speak louder than words," you and I have an experience that's totally an exception to that. Lawrence's actions betrayed me and so did your ex's. Self-healing begins now!
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