Brady_to_Moss Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 This girl at the register at Best Buy was very cute and i could tell she was flirting with me becasue there was no one in line and she just kept talking to me smiling but i didnt flirt back...i hate this...what should i have done in that situation...i wanted to flirt but didnt know what to do.
Suiyobi Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 This girl at the register at Best Buy was very cute and i could tell she was flirting with me becasue there was no one in line and she just kept talking to me smiling but i didnt flirt back...i hate this...what should i have done in that situation...i wanted to flirt but didnt know what to do. Your post here looks awfully familiar with another one you just posted, but I'll respond to it anyway lol. In that situation, you SHOULD have flirted back. You could've been all like, "So you like my <insert whatever>? I don't think you can handle them though." Or if you're not slick enough to pull off what I just said in a cocky and funny manner, you could have just "played it safe" by smiling back at her and telling her that you'd like to take her out to lunch or whatever.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 9, 2008 Author Posted August 9, 2008 Your post here looks awfully familiar with another one you just posted, but I'll respond to it anyway lol. In that situation, you SHOULD have flirted back. You could've been all like, "So you like my <insert whatever>? I don't think you can handle them though." Or if you're not slick enough to pull off what I just said in a cocky and funny manner, you could have just "played it safe" by smiling back at her and telling her that you'd like to take her out to lunch or whatever. yea i kinda posted in the wrong area then just posted again lol oops! but anyways i mean i did smile back and she laughed but i just froze up and didnt do anything..god i gotta learn not to be afraid!
Suiyobi Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Lol it's okay man. Just keep workin' at it and you'll eventually gain the confidence to approach and flirt with girls. You won't be skillful overnight, but you can make the decision to improve "overnight".
sid3 Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 your right, you've got to stop being afraid. Rejection is no big deal. and who's to say she would have said no if you had asked her to lunch. Go back tomorrow and try again
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 9, 2008 Author Posted August 9, 2008 your right, you've got to stop being afraid. Rejection is no big deal. and who's to say she would have said no if you had asked her to lunch. Go back tomorrow and try again I really feel like going back next friday night at the same time so hopefully she will be working again....i just need the confidence!
Balthazar Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 I agree with the other posters. Just ask her out to have some fun. If she says 'yes', ok. But, if she refuses, it is still ok. Good luck,
xpaperxcutx Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 If she's wearing perfume, comment on it. Or comment how much you love her smile or the way her eyes twinkle.... Yeah I'm too romantic. But god, man up and flirt back. Don't freeze up on her, or she'll feel like you're rejecting her.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 9, 2008 Author Posted August 9, 2008 If she's wearing perfume, comment on it. Or comment how much you love her smile or the way her eyes twinkle.... Yeah I'm too romantic. But god, man up and flirt back. Don't freeze up on her, or she'll feel like you're rejecting her. Oh i know...is the best thing i can do is to make her laugh and smile?
xpaperxcutx Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Oh i know...is the best thing i can do is to make her laugh and smile? Yes!!! But you got to make sure that her response is genuine, and that she's not forcing her laugh or smile and hoping you go away. Good Luck!!
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