muse82 Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 i responded to her message on facebook. She added me as a friend. I cant see if she is single or not it just dosnt show. She asked me alot of questions and said it was good to hear from me and hugs. Im wondering wether or not to ask if she wants to meet up, perhaps take her to the movies and a cup of coffee. I just dont want to come on to strong. She is very insecure,vulnerable and is suffering from anxiety. I just care alot about her but i feel i have to see her to know if i still have the strong feelings for her. She lives 2½ hours away by car but if i take the fery i cant get there in 1½ hours. Im thinking about driving to her city and then texting her to ask her out. Its just a long drive home if she dosnt want to meet me. The way she is writing to me makes me feel that she is really interested.she is not a type of girl that playes games or intentionally hurt you.She has a hard time asking for things because of fear of rejection. Its been 1½ year since i have seen her but we have remained in contact for all that time exept for 3 months. Sometimes i think that she just wants me to tell her how much i love her and how much i miss her. She dosnt want to get rejected. we are both 26 and live in Denmark.
Angel1111 Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 Is there some reason why you can't call her on the phone? I think driving out that far, or taking a ferry, is a little extreme. You could call her and set up a date and time to meet. I wouldn't text or email anyone when asking them out - you need to call her. If you don't have her phone number, then maybe going there and texting her would be cute but it has the potential to backfire on you.
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