eugene3 Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 Hello, My girl broke up with me 5 months ago. It was a bad break up and over the period of 3 months i chased her to get her back then descided to give up. Then recently i e-mailed her to get the rest of my things back from her. She said that we could meet and exchange the things just let her know when and if not she can mail them back. Yesterday i said to her the dates i can be up there and she said she will just mail them back. I said you had 5 months to do that and you never did and given the fact i have asked for my thngs back many times. I also asked her if she was dating somone and she said " i am not dating anyone and its none of your business" She said she wants to move on with her life and after 5 months its time to leave her alone. She also stated that she found something out about me but will not tell me what it is. I said ok then get me my things. She said she did not send them all this time because she did not want to hurt me. I said then if thats the case why did you break it off. Anyway she then says she does not hate me but does not like us together and that she found something out that was to say the least creepy. I said then what did you find out and she said she can not talk about it. I then said when you get time we need to talk as adults on the phone with how we can get my things back and i want to know what she found out. Anyway this girl is confusing as hell. She says i keep bothering her and its frustrating but during th ewhole time she keeps my things even after the fact i kept asking to get them back. that is why i bother her. Is this girl on drugs? Basically what i am saying is she could have at any time mailed the things back and still to this day i do not have them. So i e-mailed her yesterday and said to her that is there any way to salvage any type of connection between us as friends or something else. I said that i have improved and if we would keep in contact she would see my improvments and over time maybe we can work on things. I said to her let me know by today ( friday) that she will agree to at least think about it and if no then just mail the things back to me this sat to get it over with. So either she will ignore my question or she will just mail the things back. I am waiting to hear from her today. what do i do from here, i mean i love her and don't want to be over on bad terms. any advice would be nice. Do you think my suggestion is ok to ask her? Its basically giving her a last chance to make sure this is what she wants.
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