niki21 Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 Well this is a lil crazy but im really stuck and need some help, My ex and i broke up about 8 months ago and he got with a new girl however me and him still used to meet up about once every week or two without anyone knowing. Recently i found out that his girlfriend is pregnant with twins and they are meant to be getting married soon, im still in love with him as he was my first real love which ive never gotten over! he still rings me and trys to meet up with me but i know i really shouldnt but im still so in love with him and im always thinking something more will happen of it. Do you think i should just not answer when he rings or what? the thing is i dont want to make him angry because i wanna always be in his life incase things with him and his new girlfriend dont work out!! help me its driving me nuts!! Thanks =)
Treasa Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 So not only are you willing to sleep with someone who's cheating on his PREGNANT FIANCEE, but you're ok being the potential backup? Please find a good psychologist and examine why you have such low self esteem. Seriously. This problem has nothing to do with him and everything to do with why you don't value yourself enough.
JooLee Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 you should just stop what you're doing with him. realise your self value and that you shouldnt be treated this way. if he wants you, he would only be with you and not with anyone else. if he loves you, he would feel the same as how you are feeling. break free from this relationship. i know its hard but sometimes, at the end of the road, what choice do we have? it is the best thing to do.. for yourself, and everyone else involved in this situation. all the best to you. btw, i have to add, your ex sounds like a loser!
Nikki Sahagin Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 No, no and no. Don't let your feelings blind you to this man. Trust your gut instinct, trust the facts. He has a fiance, he has children - all you could possibly bring yourself, him, her and the children is more pain and hurt.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Well this is a lil crazy ...his girlfriend is pregnant with twins ... Just think what sort of a guy you'd be getting even IF you landed him for your very own. Suddenly he's gonna have TWO kids and will be on the hook each month for some of their support. That sure sets him back a bit enroute toward being the bread-winner that you're eventually going to want to mate with and marry.
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