Feeling sad and hurt what if??

[celinedion1]

I just feel so sad right now. My ex and I are good friends and still love each other. We hope to one day be together however at the current moment thats not possible. My ex's friend always gives my ex his opinions on my ex's life. The bad part is that my ex views this guys opinions like they were from God. This guy doesnt want my ex and i to be friends, see each other, talk to each other etc. That wouldn;t really matter however my ex always follows what this guy says, My ex and I have been best friends for 10 years. I just dont want to lose my ex as a friend but I feel so helpless with this guy telling my ex to not have anything to do with. I just dont know what to do. I dont want to put up a wall but I dont want to feel the hurt that I do. I just dont know if I should try to hold on to something that may not happen or just move on completely. My ex and i have the potential to be together however this guy is trying to push me out of my ex's life completely. How can my ex let his friend control his life?

[sultry33]

I just feel so sad right now. My ex and I are good friends and still love each other. We hope to one day be together however at the current moment thats not possible. My ex's friend always gives my ex his opinions on my ex's life. The bad part is that my ex views this guys opinions like they were from God. This guy doesnt want my ex and i to be friends, see each other, talk to each other etc. That wouldn;t really matter however my ex always follows what this guy says, My ex and I have been best friends for 10 years. I just dont want to lose my ex as a friend but I feel so helpless with this guy telling my ex to not have anything to do with. I just dont know what to do. I dont want to put up a wall but I dont want to feel the hurt that I do. I just dont know if I should try to hold on to something that may not happen or just move on completely. My ex and i have the potential to be together however this guy is trying to push me out of my ex's life completely. How can my ex let his friend control his life?

 

yes agree.. its a bit childish really.. yes we all have friends and may maynot listen to there advice... but bottom line is its his choice.

 

if you are still friends with your ex then maybe thats why he is not bothering.. if you dissapear from his life completly maybe he will feel differently..

 

do what is right for you..

[celinedion1]

yes agree.. its a bit childish really.. yes we all have friends and may maynot listen to there advice... but bottom line is its his choice.

 

if you are still friends with your ex then maybe thats why he is not bothering.. if you dissapear from his life completly maybe he will feel differently..

 

do what is right for you..

 

 

Thank you for your kind words. I agree with you it is a bit childish to let a friend control his life. Thankfully for me my ex just views this guys "advice" towards me as just his opinion, which thats all it really is. It's hard thinking of my ex and i not being friends and not being in each others lives (we've been in each others lives for over 10 years). I don't know why but for some reason this guy is like God to my ex. I have no idea what my ex see's in this guy that makes him such a great person and a great friend. I guess a lot of times we see in people something that no one else can see. I just wish that this guy wasn't as involved in my ex's life but whatever it's my ex's decision to have this guy so involved.