teethbrushes Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 My ex and I broke up mutually about 5 weeks ago. I was hospitalized shortly after and he visited me, and then we opted for No Contact at his request. Gradually, we started to talk again and things have progressed back into what is like a relationship. We tell each other we love one another, kiss when we see one another and hang out sometimes. We don't really plan to do stuff together, but we seem to find excuses for him to come over or me to come to his work and hang out. Even if I don't see him that day, they'll be at least a text or phone call saying we love one another. He wanted some time alone to clear his head and is not looking for a new relationship right now (he is about to leave for 3 months for work). I have dated a few other people, but it is very difficult as I love him SO much. Part of me wants to date other people, but part of knows I will miss him just the same whether we are together or not. I know I need to evaluate some things about myself, but I mean I can do that with him away. When he's gone, we will probably still keep in touch and profess our love for one another, so I don't get it....? What is the pay off for us doing this? Its so dumb...we're not having sex right now either, just kissing. Should I give him an ultimatum before he leaves and either be in a relationship or do No Contact or what? I just don't know....
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