wendyieann Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Hi. My STBXH and I separated 3 yrs ago. Our daughter was 6 weeks old, and our son was 1. I went through severe post pardom depression and was later diagnosed with bi-polar. Not that, I am excusing him leaving, but I understand. He left me immediately for a co-worker. Moved in with her, and just recently separated. I admit, I am now excited about him being single. I have gotten help and have changed soo much. I hear he has also changed too. My dad says, I might frighten him if I come off too strong on wanting to get back together. How do I approach him? I also want to protect my heart too, just in case he says NO. If so, that's okay too... I am happy in my life right now, but I still love him. If anyone has reconcilied after a lengthy period, let me know... What did you do? I know I should be angry at him, but I'm not. If he told me he had NO intentions of wanting to try again, I would be fine. But, until then... Thanks!!!!
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