Balthazar Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Yes, somebody will want to "make sexy" with him, and the guy was truthful in his way. As for commenting on your body, I guess it's better that not getting any comments, eh?
vonerik012 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 So men turn on and off wanting sex by clicking a mouse and switching sites? A site like Adult friend finder has thousands of fake female adds, and 20 times more men than women. So it is actually harder to find just sex on a site like that. Lets put it this way.. It is difficult to find a quality woman on the internet. Pretty, young, single, no kids, is rare, and if you do find them they get TONS of attention. This woman is much easier to find in real life. So, what to do? There is a lower sub level of females that have flaws that make them not great dating material, yet not bad for sex. Sorry, this is how men think. Thats what he was saying. He is open to having sex, but also realizes through experience he will not find the love of his life online.
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 Yes, somebody will want to "make sexy" with him, and the guy was truthful in his way. As for commenting on your body, I guess it's better that not getting any comments, eh? Sexy time! lol Well, comments like those I can do without. I usually get a lot of comments about my smile, and that's always nice. The prurient ones are a total turn-off, however. I don't know why you don't snatch me from all of this, B!
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 It means he wants sex but if the sex turns into something serious than he is not opposed to it. AS long as it is good sexy and the girl is hot. LOL. no doubt. but on the other hand my profile might say something like that but with me i just mean i dont want the girl to get too serious - thats all. we dont have to have sex, i just dont want you to think u are my girlfriend after 3 dates or something.
Star Gazer Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 The "very nice" comment he added made me think he was saying it like Borat. Daat's niiiiice.
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 LOL. no doubt. but on the other hand my profile might say something like that but with me i just mean i dont want the girl to get too serious - thats all. we dont have to have sex, i just dont want you to think u are my girlfriend after 3 dates or something. Interesting. But, this was a line in his profile - not something he wrote to me personally. So to me (and us - lol), it reads like a blanket disclaimer that he's only looking for something casual. No?
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Women, get a clue already.. All men like sex. Why do they need to hide it from you? The OP sure had her share of adventures. Or is this when she has decided she wants to have a boyfriend, so she will act like a virgin. "OMG, this man on the internet wants sex, Gross!" LOL. all women give you the virgin act or the "I've never done that before!" (i think we all know what i am referencing.) Men shouldnt have to hide their want for sex, i dont know why in the year 2008 men still feel the need to lie and deceive - women want it just as bad as men.
vonerik012 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 I know it is silly.. I always find it funny when women put up sexy pictures on their dating profile, then take offense if you comment on that.
You'reasian Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Now the unattractive guys on eharmony are looking better. WOOHOO!!! Now I've got a chance! *looks for Jilly Bean's profile on e-harmony* Just teasing
Balthazar Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Wait .... I have to look up prurient in my dictionary. Prurient - adj (Inordinately interested in matters of sex; lascivious) Ah! Lascivious remarks you can do without! Why didn't you say "lascivious" in the first place JillyB? As for snatching you away, well, my reach is long, but not that long... We are forced apart by the cruel waters of the Atlantic(not to mention parts of France,Germany,Austria,Croatia,Serbia until you reach the mythical isle of Zante).
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 Men shouldnt have to hide their want for sex, i dont know why in the year 2008 men still feel the need to lie and deceive - women want it just as bad as men. Yes, we all want sex, and we all understand that. That's not the point of this at all. Please try to keep this on the REAL topic. It's that why do men behave like this on LEGITIMATE dating sites. It's no different than a guy approaching a woman in line getting gas and asking her if she wants to come home with him for some afternoon delight. It's just as unwanted and inappropriate. Legitimate dating sites are NOT the forum for guys to troll for sex, IMO. There are other venues for that. When the majority are actively seeking dates/relationships of a genuine nature, the idiot who bounces in with the "nice bod!" comments, doesn't look like a guy who should feel entitled to not hide his intentions, but should feel like an a** for his boorish behavior.
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Interesting. But, this was a line in his profile - not something he wrote to me personally. So to me (and us - lol), it reads like a blanket disclaimer that he's only looking for something casual. No? like i said, i have a profile on a site and mine is something similar. i could just be a differnet type of person but i am not looking for sex. i have a no sex in the first month rule - BELIEVE IT! i simply dont want someone getting attatched, but if it happens, it happens. i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but women sometimes bully men into relationships and i never want that to happen to me again so i keep everything casual (there is an invisible sticker on my forehead that reads: YOU ARE NOT MY GIRLFRIEND!) plus if everythign is casual there is no committment and you can keep dating multiple women and feel no guilt. its not just a sex thing - its a no attachment thing too. no moving in, no staying over, no obligations to call you, etc. just casual. now everthing i have just explained is simply my thinking on my personal profile... he might just want sex... you never know...
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 WOOHOO!!! Now I've got a chance! *looks for Jilly Bean's profile on e-harmony* Just teasing LOL! Yes, please do! C'mon over to eharmony! All the cool kids are there!
Balthazar Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 LOL. all women give you the virgin act or the "I've never done that before!" (i think we all know what i am referencing.) Men shouldnt have to hide their want for sex, i dont know why in the year 2008 men still feel the need to lie and deceive - women want it just as bad as men. I have been guy number 3 for most of the women I know, but I am not sure if BJ's count(see CLERKS the movie).
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 Wait .... I have to look up prurient in my dictionary. Prurient - adj (Inordinately interested in matters of sex; lascivious) Ah! Lascivious remarks you can do without! Why didn't you say "lascivious" in the first place JillyB? As for snatching you away, well, my reach is long, but not that long... We are forced apart by the cruel waters of the Atlantic(not to mention parts of France,Germany,Austria,Croatia,Serbia until you reach the mythical isle of Zante). Prurient is just easier for me to spell, B. lol I do have a passport. Will it take me to Zante? Will I need a green card? lol Eh, I know the dating thing is a numbers game. Lots o' weeding out required...
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Yes, we all want sex, and we all understand that. That's not the point of this at all. Please try to keep this on the REAL topic. It's that why do men behave like this on LEGITIMATE dating sites. It's no different than a guy approaching a woman in line getting gas and asking her if she wants to come home with him for some afternoon delight. It's just as unwanted and inappropriate. Legitimate dating sites are NOT the forum for guys to troll for sex, IMO. There are other venues for that. When the majority are actively seeking dates/relationships of a genuine nature, the idiot who bounces in with the "nice bod!" comments, doesn't look like a guy who should feel entitled to not hide his intentions, but should feel like an a** for his boorish behavior. the funny thing about that is that all the women i talk to on the dating site i am apart of say that 95% of the men do portray boorish behavior and are just looking for sex. my thing is, almost every chick says this, so this must be working for the guys right? i think they believe that the chicks on those sites are desperate and ripe for the pickin or something - i dont know - i come through being a nice guy and it works, those guys are keeping my calendar very full.
You'reasian Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 All the cool kids are there! Really?!?! I guess if I went there I could be cool too. YES!
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 like i said, i have a profile on a site and mine is something similar. i could just be a differnet type of person but i am not looking for sex. i have a no sex in the first month rule - BELIEVE IT! i simply dont want someone getting attatched, but if it happens, it happens. i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but women sometimes bully men into relationships and i never want that to happen to me again so i keep everything casual (there is an invisible sticker on my forehead that reads: YOU ARE NOT MY GIRLFRIEND!) plus if everythign is casual there is no committment and you can keep dating multiple women and feel no guilt. its not just a sex thing - its a no attachment thing too. no moving in, no staying over, no obligations to call you, etc. just casual. now everthing i have just explained is simply my thinking on my personal profile... he might just want sex... you never know... OK, that's cool. Thanks! His profile line could have been up for interpretation, but if you then read what he wrote me, it pretty confirmed the sex thing. But, thanks for the further comments on your own take and interpretation. I have seen guys write things along those lines. If this guy sent me a different type of introduction, then I would have tended to agree with your assessment. But, he outed his intentions early...
vonerik012 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Jilly, up to 20% of people on "legitimate" dating sites are married. Yes, it would be nice if you could completely change men's nature, and have them all want to marry you from the "legitimate" site. But thats not life. If women weren't having quick sex, men would quickly stop trying. But the women are. Many women use sex as a way to get a relationship. So, blame them too.
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 I have been guy number 3 for most of the women I know, but I am not sure if BJ's count(see CLERKS the movie). LOL this forum is on FIRE! i love CLERKS. i am not sure if BJ's count either, LOL... but i know damn near every girl SWEARS you are the first, then they proceed to do a horrible job (Because they just have to act it out in full) which totally urks me to no end. that should be a different topic on this board, i bet all men know what i am talking about!
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 OK, that's cool. Thanks! His profile line could have been up for interpretation, but if you then read what he wrote me, it pretty confirmed the sex thing. But, thanks for the further comments on your own take and interpretation. I have seen guys write things along those lines. If this guy sent me a different type of introduction, then I would have tended to agree with your assessment. But, he outed his intentions early... hey i am always here to help. if you have any other online dating questions, shoot them my way... PAYNE CARES!
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 the funny thing about that is that all the women i talk to on the dating site i am apart of say that 95% of the men do portray boorish behavior and are just looking for sex. my thing is, almost every chick says this, so this must be working for the guys right? i think they believe that the chicks on those sites are desperate and ripe for the pickin or something - i dont know - i come through being a nice guy and it works, those guys are keeping my calendar very full. I don't know how often it works, to be honest. I have had, and do, plenty of gf's who do OLD. And none of them were on there looking for booty. Even if a guy was a tool about asking for it. Just seems to create a lot more frustration. I think for guys online looking for sex, it's a lot easier to send a few emails, than it is to get dressed and go sit in a bar, right? But there are men online who are not all looking for sex. On the site the guy wrote me this on, his was the first to write me something like that. All the others (this time!) have been very much gentleman.
bigmanpayne Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 I know it is silly.. I always find it funny when women put up sexy pictures on their dating profile, then take offense if you comment on that. LOL again! They will have nice cleavege shots or sexy poses then call a guy a perve if they comment on it... what is up with that?
grogster Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 What does this statement in an OLD profile mean? I am not sure that I am looking for a serious relationship, just looking to have some fun. I am not opposed to a serious relationship with the right person but I am very picky. Women he deems average looking should just expect sex, and not an ongoing romantic relationship. Women he considers hot (or keepers) can enjoy the possibility of an ongoing romantic relationship. Implied message: both sets of women should consider themselves lucky.
audrey_1 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 What happens if he doesn't want a relationship OR sex??
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