I don't know what to think

[PoeticMisery]

I've been with my SO for a little over a month but lately I haven't heard from him at all. It's been over a week and he hasn't answered any of my texts. This is my first LDR so I don't really know what to expect. We used to talk pretty much every day dispite the major time difference. I really don't know what to think. How long would you wait before you start to wonder if that's a not so subtle hint? Am I just worrying too much for nothing?

[taiko]

In only a month he was not a ''significant'' other. At least not in his mind.

[HisLove]

I'd say stop sending texts for the moment. It could be a perfectly plausible reason that he isn't responding - what if he wasn't getting your texts and thought the same about you? (I've sent her texts and she hasn't answered??).

 

For the time being I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and see what unfolds. Have you had other contact in the past - ie, emails? You're not getting those either? Does he live in an area where communication isn't reliable? Has he had other things to deal with? Can you send a text (and I have done this in the past) that asks 'are you ok? I'm worried I haven't heard from you'. They have always gotten me a reply.

 

Was the last communication you had from him a positive one?

[Jordane]

A week?! I would have taken the hint days ago. If you had an established pattern of communication and he broke it without ANY notice there is probably a reason for that, he is not interested. Stop texting him and if something completely out of his control happened, he will get in touch but since the likely hood of that is fairly unlikely, I wouldn't hold my breath.

[Lucky_One]

I would just give him a call. He might not be getting the texts, but then again,if he was worried about not hearing from you he would have called you already.

 

Or do you not ever call each other? Is this online only?