carrot10 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 I broke up with my bf on Monday because I am totally in love with him and he doesn't have the same feelings as I do. He said "he can't flip the switch" to the next level. Well, I don't have a f**king switch to flip. I can't wait another year hoping that he falls in love with me. When I told him I loved him(badddd idea) in March. He said "I've known that for awhile" I felt like the biggest ass. I kept going with the hoping and now its August and he still can't "flip the switch" or "see a sign" or whatever else bs he said. Please tell me to not waste time thinking about this guy! I know he doesn't love me! Please help me really see this for what it is!!!
journey1 Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 what it is is this: He may be in love with you but not know it until youre gone or dating someone else. It seems as if there isnt a lot of BS between you two and it may be possible that if you turn your back on him for just a little while like a month or so.(and you can do that) he may feel differently!!!!!!!!!!!! I think its worth a shot. God knows I am trying to do that too, but you have way more of a chance than I do at this point. GOOD LUCK:bunny:
saams Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Imo Tell him you wanna see other people and back off him abit, go on a few dates with some other people maybe or just show him that you might be intereseted in some one else, if he loves you he will come running back really fast, if he doesnt come back he most likely doesnt want you and doesnt love you.
JooLee Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 yeah show him you dont care and that you can handle not having him in your life. get a makeover, feel good about yourself and go on dates. and then he'll see what he's losing.
The Collector Posted August 7, 2008 Posted August 7, 2008 Make a list of all the reasons why it would never workout anyway. And don't forget all his shortcomings.
Author carrot10 Posted August 7, 2008 Author Posted August 7, 2008 Thanks guys! I haven't spoken to him since we broke up Monday night. I won't contact him in any way. It's killing me though. I miss him so much. I keep second guessing myself -thinking I shouldn't have broken up with him. But then I remind myself that he told me he couldn't take it to the next level and he didn't know why. This hurts so bad.
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