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Is dating for me a waste of time right now in my life?


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I am 19 but i feel as if i date someone now i will just end up breaking up with them becasue i am somewhat young....I have never had a GF and i really dont want a GF for just the sake of having one allthough i am real lonely and would love someone to talk too and relate to that is girl :mad:...

 

 

But i want to find the right person but i feel as if i ask some girls out it will be a waste of time..but maybe it wont be. Is it a waste or should i try it out? I really need a nice girl in my life right now

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Dude--you're overthinking it. Just find a nice girl and go out with her..she doesn't have to be the "one". Just do it.

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I am 19 but i feel as if i date someone now i will just end up breaking up with them becasue i am somewhat young....I have never had a GF and i really dont want a GF for just the sake of having one allthough i am real lonely and would love someone to talk too and relate to that is girl :mad:...

 

 

But i want to find the right person but i feel as if i ask some girls out it will be a waste of time..but maybe it wont be. Is it a waste or should i try it out? I really need a nice girl in my life right now

 

Getting a girlfriend should never be your priority otherwise you'll come off as needy with the girls that you meet. Just continue to live your life and you'll be okay.

 

But on the same token, don't think of asking girls out as a "waste of time". If they reject you or if they realize that you're nothing more than a friend to them, learn from those experiences and listen to what they have to say. Some girls (who are serious about relationships anyway) will be honest with you as to what your best and worst aspects are, and you could use this information to improve yourself.

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