MONKEY_MOMMY Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 I've been in a relationship with the father of my child for the last 4 years. Its not the same anymore. I still love him, but not as much. In fact i think i might love someone else. I tried to work it out with my boyfriend but nothing works. I try not to think about my ex but its hard not to. I've been spanding a lot of time with him and lying to my boyfriend to do so. Its hard to leave him cause every time i try, he makes me feel like he is gonna hurt himself or our child. I just dont want anyone hurt in all of this. I need a way to end my current relationship without him playing his usual games. And i need to know if my ex feels the same way i feel about him. This has been going on for months and i dont thinki can keep it up. Dont get me wrong, i truely love both of them andthey make me happy. I just want to move on and get the love i deserve. I can forgive bothof them cause they both cheated many times. For some reason , it hurt a lot more when my current boyfriend did it. BUT I CANT FORGET AND IT STILL HURTS. HE JUST ACTS LIKE HE DID NOTHING WRONG. But i just cant leave either of them alone. I need help. Its too hard
SilverLining Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 But I don't think you are going to like hearing this. You need to get out and leave BOTH of them alone. Why oh why are you wanting to go back to your ex? Because you think the grass will be greener? There was a reason you broke up in the first place, and that reason was that he cheated on you many times! Even if that wasn't the official reason, the relationship was doomed after that. He obviously doesn't respect you. And now this new guy, wonder of all wonders, he cheats on you too! And now he acts like it was no big deal? This guy does not respect you either. Do you want to show your child that it's ok to be with someone who shows you no respect and cheats on you? Why don't you do something different? Recognize you have a bad habit of picking guys out that cheat and do not respect you. Maybe you need to spend more time working on why you do that, and less trying to win back people who do not deserve your love. You need to love yourself and your child enough to demand something better, because you ARE worth it.
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