tycel Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 I've known this woman going on two years now, I know shes married and shes got a young daughter. Her husband is lazy (I mean really lazy like won't watch the kid unless he absolutely has to kind of thing) Me and Her got real close but I keep stopping myself even though I want to get as close to her as possible. Her being married isn't whats stopping me from going through with it I already know that. A bit of history I was with my ex for 3 years (of the two I've known her) and I have 1 year old boy. I befriended her at work and we just kind of hit it off hanging out and having fun. I guess im just looking for a outsiders opinion on this..
bentnotbroken Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 I am sorry, if not wanting to watch your children makes a H no good, then there are a lot of no good, lazy men out there. That is a lame reason to want to screw his wife. Seems you both didn't respect boundaries while in significant relationships. Leave her alone. The mess that comes with an affair isn't worth the supposed good vibes.
astra77 Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 I am sorry, if not wanting to watch your children makes a H no good, then there are a lot of no good, lazy men out there. That is a lame reason to want to screw his wife. Seems you both didn't respect boundaries while in significant relationships. Leave her alone. The mess that comes with an affair isn't worth the supposed good vibes. Firstly, welcome to LS. Congrats on having the courage to post. What is your invlovement with this OW (other woman) - how far has it gone - is it an EA (emotional affair) or a PA (physical affair)
crystal_lostheart Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 If something hasn't started between the two of you yet - walk away. It will get messy - it always does. If I had my time over I would not be with my MM now. Although at the moment I'm feeling trapped. Don't put yourself through it - it's not worth it.
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