yongyong Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 so you are dating a guy and he asks you to take birth control Would you get offended? because you think ,he just wants to use you for sex? While dating, you talk about having a kid in near future. he tells you nicely it's too early to consider having a baby (he is not sure they will be together forever, of course, he is not going to say 'cuz I don't know if I will be with you forever'. But you never know who's going to break the relationship first) Would you get really offended? because you think, he doesn't want to stay with you forever? (if you think, by getting pregnant, you can bind a guy, that's really stupid thinking. maybe possible in Islam culture?) I really want to be careful about getting a woman pregnant. I would wait at least three years after marriage to see if the relationship will last long. I see many single parents who have to meet their ex (whether they hate each other or not) because of a kid. Of course, you have one more baggage which will make it harder to get married again as well. More importantly, the kid can't get as much attention as a kid in normal family If a couple breaks up with a kid, usually woman will take the kid and all he has to do is send some money. So men can go back to normal life a lot easier than single moms. So if your boyfriend or husband wants to take it slowly, I don't think women should get offended at ALL
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