he broke NC...2 yrs later

[hrtbroken99]

its been 2 yrs since I have seen my ex.

since the breakup my life has been teriible. I can go into details but it is a waste of time. The person I one was died a long time ago died with that breakup and we all know that dead people do not come back

 

so...a week ago I got a missed call and message from my ex. he left me and i was and all torn up for a long time. although i am a little better now I still messed up and just hate my life.

 

i cant believe he contacted me after so long? I dont know what to do?

he left me a msg saying i know it has been a long time since we have spoken and said something like he wanted to know how I was doing, where I was living and said that he was moving back to the area. he said he would like to hear from me and catch up.

 

why...why why break NC after so long...why care what someone is up to after so long....can anyone translate this for me? i am just confused about his intentions

[ioncebelieved]

I bet you were freaked out!!! It could be many things. It is up to you on what you do and how you are in your life. Did you two break on bad terms? If not, contact him later after you thought long enough about what to say and how to respond to him. He could have a had a breakup and be returning to familiar ground. Who knows, but when you talk to him you will get more to go on.

[CaliGuy]

Let me translate his message:

 

"I'm moving back to your area and don't have a regular sex partner at the moment. I don't care that I broke your heart, I'm just looking for a quick hookup and hope that you don't have enough self-esteem and confidence to shoot me down. Call me back, I'm horneeeeeeeeeeey!!!"

 

If I were you, I'd delete the message and act like he never called.

[xjohnsgirlx]

Let me translate his message:

 

"I'm moving back to your area and don't have a regular sex partner at the moment. I don't care that I broke your heart, I'm just looking for a quick hookup and hope that you don't have enough self-esteem and confidence to shoot me down. Call me back, I'm horneeeeeeeeeeey!!!"

 

If I were you, I'd delete the message and act like he never called.

i agree with cali guy.

 

your so excited but shocked to hear from him. Dont make things harder by talking to him. He left once, if he really cared why wud it take him 2 years to try and contact you. I know its hard, and you might be all down and upset and everything. Dont let him hurt you again and make things 10 times worse

[BackonTrack]

He's back in the area and he's lonely.

You two once shared time together and he is hoping you still want to see him and hang out with him.

 

If he broke your heart when he left & you are willing to go through the heart break again, then by all means go see him.

 

Chances are though, he just wants to have sex with you, but who knows. The ball is in your court as to what you want to do.

 

My ex crushed me by leaving a few months ago, about 5 months ago. I still want to see her, she hasn't called though. I don't think I will hear from her for many years. If she does call me out of the blue in 2 years, I think enough time would have passed for me to just ignore the call, then again its really up to you.

 

The worst came scenioro,

You & your ex meet up, you guys hang out, he has sex. He turns you into a regular sex partner until he finds someone he really likes or

 

OR

You guys start a relationship, back to old times again.

 

The Best Case Scenario

I don't see any best cases, You'll either be a **** buddy, start a relationship or get your heart broken.

 

Its up to you what you want to do.

[orangehose]

I read some of your earlier posts and I think it's still best for you to stay NC with this guy for a while longer. He broke your heart and doesn't deserve friendship (or anything else) from you.