Hopelessly_Devoted Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 Although my ex (11 year relationship- he broke up with me around may 20th of this year) I still get his credit card bills although he's changed his address with USPS. I came to founf out he and his new "one" went t arunba where he proposed to me last year july 4th and today he just purchased her something from tiffany & co. he alway bough tme something from there and when he cheated on me 4 or 5 years ago he vought that woman something from there, I just feel hurt I hate him but deep down in me wishs we could get back one day but not now. ALmost 3 months later and it still hurts.... want to move on but don't want to hurt the next guy... been 6 months since I have been "active" but I am waiting strongly for the next guy. I do have respect for myself, but how can it be so easy for men to move on to the next crumb grubber when the dumpee cannot yet for their own sake...?
0hpenelope Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 Changed those addresses in those credit card bills, I hope. No use thinking about him and others at this point. Healing is essentially selfish because the focus is on you. Just think of yourself now. Without hurting others. And from the looks of things... so far, so good.
tomwiz Posted August 8, 2008 Posted August 8, 2008 Your probably wouldnt feel this way if you ddint violate federal law and open his mail
Author Hopelessly_Devoted Posted August 8, 2008 Author Posted August 8, 2008 LOL, your right but it was a joint account (i had an additional card) so I still have a balance to pay. I want to make that very clear.
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