Ohio14inter Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 My girlfriend of 2 years has been working at a department store up at the college we attend for a year or so. The guy that was/may still be interested in her works there as well. She has insisted that she never had any sort of feelings for him (back when this was an issue, and I was very insecure) , and I believed her. Now here's the real catch. I got a job at the same store over the Summer back at home and plan to transfer to the store up at college for the school year, where he and my girlfriend will be working as well. The guy knows how much I dislike him, as does my girlfriend. Do you guys think any problems could arise from this?
EYECANDY000 Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 If this guy knows that you dont like him , then yes i can sense that there will be some bad vibes taking place. Also, why do you want to work in the same atmosphere with your g/f? Thats where a lot of problems start. Mainly because if your s/o is having a conversation with a male, then you might take the conversation the wrong way and vise versa. But, if you are extremly secure with your relationship and you know that you can be cordial with the guy, then go for it.
JoeNewbie Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 Insecurity does not disappear overnight and I suspect you may want to work with your GF to make sure she does not flirt with any co-workers. That would be a terrible mistake on your part. I personally would not recommend that you actually work with her.
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