MaNg0s Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 Well I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now and it has been going really well. She is usually very busy during the day as she looks after her grandmother which is fine I think its very sweet how she has the patience to look after an elderly person. But anyways she does a few things that annoy me at first it didn't but now they are just irratating me. She says she will call in 10 mins or ask me to call back in 5 mins but usually ends up calling me back 2 hours later this happens all the freaking time. She does this when meeting up we decide on a time but then she will call telling me she will be longer. For example the other night she said she was going to a friends house and she will be at mine for around 8 then it was 10 no contact from her so I called her she said she was leaving in half an hour then at 12 still no contact from her I call her she says she was going to be with me in a min. She does this all the time and its driving me nuts. Ok I am a very patient person but if someone says a time why not stick to it ? I know everyone has other tasks to do but if you are going to be delayed isn't the polite thing to do is to tell the person ? . Also I have some commitment issues as I have been ****ed over alot in the past by girls. Yesterday I was curious and asked how many other guys she had given head to as she asked me a simular question about how many girls I had given head to . She told me she had given head to 7 guys that freaked me out and I went all funny and distant and edgy and its like the closer I get to this girl the more freaked out I get sometimes. I never knew I was going to be like this. It has also caused me to be unable to perform sexually I know its sad I am 19 it has never happened to me before she was ready to go and I just couldnt get it going I just got soo nervous and freaked out. Can someone tell me if I am overeacting by whats going on ? and how to stop acting like a scared child from commitment because I care about this girl and I just want to get close to her and not push her away like I did with my other relationships.
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