saams Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 i am in need of some advice... i was with a girl for about 3 months and last week she broke up with me.. it was much on and off over the last months but she said it was completly over last week. but the thing is i really love her and she is special to me, i want her back but i dont know how to, when i try to contact her she keeps telling me we can just be friends now and i should stop trying or she'll just not take my calls anymore... it all started back like 2 weeks ago when she asked for '' time '' to figure things out and i couldnt stop writing her, she got extremely mad that i couldnt back off abit from her while our relationship was going down. she also said if i had just a backed off while she needed time we could still have been together. thats probably why it hurts so much, knowing all i needed to do was just give her some time.. but thats too late now so i wonder if there is any other way to fix it or if i should just not contact her anymore?
Treasa Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 Well, I certainly would NOT ask for a second chance! If she wants time and space, you should give it to her. Completely back off and go about your life. If she misses you, she'll let you know.
Author saams Posted August 5, 2008 Author Posted August 5, 2008 but we already broke up.. and also she calls from time to time and write me but only as a friend she says. problem is i just cant be friends with somebody i love, and the thought of her getting another boyfriend while i am being her friend or giving her time would just kill me.. and i really miss her now but i dont know how to let her know that i want her back in a way that doesnt piss her off or make her less likely to pick up when i call >< really bad situation becourse we cant talk about feelings anymore and i cant ask if she still loves me or even slightly misses me, i just dont know if there is any chance of it to work or if i should just keep no contact with her and try to move on...
Treasa Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 Yes, I would go completely NC if being friends with her is too hard. I stand by my previous statement: if she has feelings for you, she'll let you know.
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