physician Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 i met this girl a few weeks back and we had an instant attraction. i got her number and we went out soon after on a nice date. we both agreed it felt like we knew each other for ages. we had some conflicting vacations after that, and during her trip she e-mailed me just to say she was thinking about me and couldn't wait to see me again. she also told me she had told her friends about me, and we are so compatible, and all that. then we had another date which was really nice and then she had another trip so i didn't see her for a week. but she has been in town for 5 days now and hasn't tried to call to talk or anything. and i know i could be the one to call her, or e-mail her, but let's just say i left the ball in her court last time we talked. i also know she's been online and messing about with friends. i don't want to come off as too eager, and she KNOWS i'm interested, so do i have to just leave it with her now? i'm already more or less at my limit for 'chasing' even though i haven't done so much of it... what do you think? do i go after her again? tell her i want to go on a date? also worth mentioning that she just got out of a long term relationship fairly recently.
Author physician Posted August 5, 2008 Author Posted August 5, 2008 i met this girl a few weeks back and we had an instant attraction. i got her number and we went out soon after on a nice date. we both agreed it felt like we knew each other for ages. we had some conflicting vacations after that, and during her trip she e-mailed me just to say she was thinking about me and couldn't wait to see me again. she also told me she had told her friends about me, and we are so compatible, and all that. then we had another date which was really nice and then she had another trip so i didn't see her for a week. but she has been in town for 5 days now and hasn't tried to call to talk or anything. and i know i could be the one to call her, or e-mail her, but let's just say i left the ball in her court last time we talked. i also know she's been online and messing about with friends. i don't want to come off as too eager, and she KNOWS i'm interested, so do i have to just leave it with her now? i'm already more or less at my limit for 'chasing' even though i haven't done so much of it... what do you think? do i go after her again? tell her i want to go on a date? also worth mentioning that she just got out of a long term relationship fairly recently. perhaps its worth mentioning that she did post a little 'hello' note on my myspace page as well during her time back, and i did respond to that...
nopainnogain Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 Im in the same pickle. Maybe its best we leave them alone ?
A.G.Doren Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 She just got out of an LTR and may have rethought getting involved with anyone at all right now . I would KIT via facebook very casually.
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