fran82 Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 im so miserable, pure miserable and stressed out to the max, and surrounded by pig headed arrogant ppl (like work colleagues i cant get away from). why do my thoughts always turn to him??? why is life so cruel??? why cant it just be easy like it seems to be for eveyone im surrounded by??? id managed a happy 26 days of n/c then he texted me, i left it a few days and reply a simple response "things fine, u?"...........now things are a little harder, got a big scary job interview, current job has manager from hell, learning to drive and can not stand other rude drivers tooting at me! i feel like a big miserable angry mess and i just want him to hold me! aaaaaaaaggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh its been 3 months and mostly ive been doing fine help me!
justine4 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Long time no speak Fran. Doesn't sound like you where doing too well when you posted this thread. Hopefully it was just bad few days and things look a little brighter now. Its natural that you'd want to turn to him when you're going through stressful time with life in general. Are you regretting ending things with him? What sort of terms are you on now? You did so much better and where so much stronger than me when we where both going through the end of our relationships. It took me 2 months before I went out for a simple drink with the girls. I ended up meeting a guy (from Kerry of all places - Up Tyrone!) although my heart really wasn't in it, and what do you know? A week later, my ex contacted me. Since then, hes been texting (1 day I counted 45 texts) and we're going to meet up next weekend for lunch. Its going to be strange. Have you spoken to your ex recently?
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