Kelso Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 I've been on an exchange program for the summer in a foreign country, with a lot of foreign students as well students from my home country. The first night here I met a girl, who was so nice, beautiful and funny. She lives in the same city as I do, but this first evening I learned that she was moving away the week after she gets home, to a place that is 500 miles away. Therefor I decided that I was not gonna fall for this girl, and it would be better to get to know her as a friend. That's what I've been doing for the past weeks. She left 3 days ago and I miss her so much. I never thought that it would be like this, but I feel so empty inside and bored. It's almost the same feeling as a breakup, but of course not as intense. I must admit that I didn't follow what I had planned to do - nothing. We've been hanging a lot together - but we haven't kissed or anything yet. Mostly because I wasn't gonna do anything about it, and also because I've haven't had the opportunity. All of this ended in me not doing anything at all. Like I said, we've been hanging a lot together. Studying together at school, eating lunch together, she asking if I wanted to come over and have dinner with her, me cooking for her, us drinking beer with some more of our mutual friends. They all lived together in a small apartment, so it was quite hard to make any moves with 4-5-6 people around us. I know that I'm definitely not in the friend zone, she has interest. I've seen that be how she acts towards me compared to others. I just don't know what to do about it. I've fallen for this girl, but she's moving away next week and will probably have moved when I get back home. Of course we can always chat online - but I find it a horrible to think about that I've been developing feelings toward someone who lives so far away. Even though she's only moving for a year and a half. Has anyone been in this position before?? I am so confused these days.
Author Kelso Posted August 5, 2008 Author Posted August 5, 2008 no inputs? It would really mean a lot to me.
mokie114 Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 it's really up to you, are you willing to deal with a long distance relationship? or would that hurt you more than what you're feeling now with her leaving. answer that, and you'll know what to do. i say go for it.
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