flc Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 So I met a women in May and we started going out. Three dates and it was going very well, she was texting and calling me every day. Then she invites me out and tells me things are going too fast and she wants to slow down and be friends first. I say am Ok with that but slow down actually becomes a kiss on the cheek after a date etc. I tell her that this is not slowing down this is the switch in 'off' mode and that I need some intimacy in a relationship if it is a relationship. We agree to be friends and I start dating again and meet someone new who is nice. I call the first women up and ask if she wants to meet for coffee she agrees and afterwards things heat way up, lots of kissing. Now I am totally confused plus I have a date with the second women coming up. At no time was there any discussion between any of us about being exclusive. I go out with the second women and have a great time but I feel really uncomfortable with the current situation and decide I have to tell the first women that I am going out with someone else as well. This is over a two week period and I have seen both women a couple of times, no sex with either. I do this and I immediately see she is very hurt and feels betrayed?? I feel terrible but what should I have done differently under the circumstances.
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