Mind games

[my body is a cage]

i just saw my emotionally abusive ex at a party. the self proclaimed master of mind games

 

i saw him the day before that at a smaller party and he was clearly annoyed by the lack of attention i was paying to him (i talked to him when he initiated convo, but i tried to leave without saying bye and he kicked my tire and was like you dont say bye?!)

 

these really pretty younger girls were hitting on him today.

 

he walked by with one of them, saw me and hit my arm and said 'look who it is!' but kept walking. i didnt really respond because i didnt know what to say.

 

later i ran into him again and he basically ignored me and only talked to my friend, even though i tried to address him.

 

does he not care about me anymore because of the pretty girls hitting on him? did he realize he has the upper hand because i was awkward and therefore not care? or was he just being awkward himself?

 

am i crazy for even anaylyzing this? AHHH

[Jilly Bean]

You're letting him emotionally abuse you again, hon. STOP IT!!!

[torranceshipman]

What Jilly said....

 

Ignore him 100% and you are on to a winner...then you don't have to worry about finding something to say PLUS it obviously drives him mad when you ignore him, and annoying him is an added bonus here because he sounds like a dick

 

Seriously nothing stings like indifference, so ignore and come across indifferent....you'll feel better, you'll have the upper hand and his ego will be crushed!!

 

And try to forget about what this guy is or isnt thinking as he is clearly a waste of space.

[my body is a cage]

woah, two nice/helpful replies to my very drunken post thanks guys. i was a bit... worked up last night haha

 

yeah im sure ignoring him is my best bet, he deserves it and hopefully my feelings will wane. i'll be honest and admit im not completely over him. its just irritating to see pretty younger girls hit on him.