sid3 Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 After a month of N/C, my ex called and texted to say she was sorry and that she missed me. The relationship had been ended cause I wasn't willing to settle for the hot/cold treatment and sometimes flakiness. Anyhow, after getting her apology and her saving she wanted to work on it, I'm really confused about what is happening. For the past six weeks, I have seen her once a week. We sometimes work together and I will have coffee/ go out side and chat with her. The thing is, she is very affectionate, no shortage of hugs and kisses when I have to leave. When I ask her when I'll see her again, she always says 'hopefully soon' or we go to lunch etc. I've been patient as to not push the issue, I usually call or text her every few days. Before the month of N/C, I would see her outside of work about twice a week.I am really wondering why she is wanting to kiss me yet not see me out side of work. I don't believe she is seeing anyone else. I'm wondering if I should move on.Any advice would be great.
Suiyobi Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 Try to find out if she is really seeing anyone else or not, or if she recently broke up with someone. You don't want to end up as her rebound despite the fact that you two are exes. Speaking of which, you should try to see if she is genuinely interested in getting back together with you, that she really "wanted to work on it". (From this statement, I assume she meant that she wants to correct the mistakes she made in the past with you and want to work on a better relationship.) I think everyone deserves a second chance, but it's up to you whether you're willing to give that.
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