totallyconfused526 Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 Hello,i'm new to the site.But really happy to have stumble on it.I recently broke-up with my ex.(May 25,2008). We had been together for 3yrs.We had a hard break-up.Our relationship was so bad that we could not be around each other.I first had bitter feeling's toward's him but, with time they just seem to go away.Now don't get me wrong i think that us splitting up was the right thing to do.But recently i had to contact him about some matter with his truck insurance.So i sent him an e-mail.We chat fine and all was well. We said our good bye's and all .I get an e-mail an hour later saying (oh BTW I'm getting married) so i responed,,That great i'm really happy for and all.about a week later.I ran into his profile on a dating site.So out of courisity,I did a search on his user name.And his on several dating sites.And on one of the sites he says that he's engaged to an asian girl, on my space to some latin girl,and on other sites he is listed as single and looking for someone.Now all of these sites his log-on recently.So my question is (Why would he try to make me jealous By telling that he's getting married)?And another thing we have mutual friend and they all tell me that he talk so bad about me?Why does someone do something like that? after all he's the one that ended the relationship.Can someone please help make heads or tails out of this ?
imagine Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 He may have been trying to drive the last nail in after the bitter break up. He may just as well have tried to explain that he was in fact getting married and therefore off limits. Whatever... Be grateful for the good times that you shared. Be happy for his future. Do not let this consume you... Life is too precious for regrets. Chin up and get back to living!
Author totallyconfused526 Posted August 2, 2008 Author Posted August 2, 2008 I am happy for him and wish him the best, but it makes no sence to me.How someone says something that is not true and besides it's not like we have talked or anything .We only chatted that one time and I have never or would never ask him back.So my point is His life is his life and all i wanted to do was inform him about his truck insurance being cancelled.I don't need to know where he's at or with who he's with.
silvergirl Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 He wants to make himself look better than you. He wants you to think he's got it going on, and you don't. Thank God you and this guy are no longer together, he sounds like an a@@
cyabye Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 Why should it matter to you anymore? From what you say, I doubt he is getting married. Anyway move on and remain indifferent. C'YA BYE!
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