lkonohalanbu Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 Hi, Recently got out of my 1st relationship, I am not the one did the breaking up. My girlfriend of the past 1.7 years broke up with my recently, she at first wanted a break, but didn't know how long she needed a break. Her reason being was she did not have time to fully commit herself to the relationship and she felt that was unfair to me. She is currently working full time and going to school for Art, she is worried about where she is going to be in the future and worried about her mom who is in a different country. She tells me that right now she is not ready for a serious relationship and that maybe in the future she might want another chance with me. I feel horrible because I love her a lot and she tells me she loves me. For the first week I couldn't stop messaging her telling her I miss her and that I will try to be strong, I tried doing the no contact thing, but I couldn't maintain it for more than a few hours. I knew I was hurting her and I called her to ask her to tell me that it's hurting her to force myself to give her space. I really miss her a lot, I am forcing myself to not talk to her, but I still want her back in my life, I've been doing a lot of reading and it seems that I should give her space and wait for her to come back to me. I want to have her back in my life, but she needs time right now, any ideas to cope with this or help me get her back? Oh I also wrote her a letter on the last day we saw her, telling her I will be strong and do my best, at the end I signed her ex-boyfriend, but she said she doesn't want me to be an ex-boyfriend just "my name"... I NEED HELP, 1st break up, young and missing her greatly! Thanks,
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