my ex broke off with me for other woman, now want to back with me

[notsureifright]

Long story short, My ex was a charming man, but very sneaky and not honest. WHile I was pregnant with his second child, and taking care of 11 month of our 1st child, he started seeing another woman and broke up with me, in everyway, tried to avoid childsupport, to avoid responsiblity, sneaky, etc. and he married that woman 3 months after we broke up.

 

then his marriage to this woman ended a while ago, with another 2 year boy.

 

this korean woman is very controlling, not trust him, and control every aspect of his life and very mean to him. He told me he got to do every house chores and she yelled at him, and called him loser all the time, etc.

 

 

Then at that time, he kept asking me to go back with him, and marry him to so he can have a family life. Before my kid, he has another girl with other woman.

 

He said he is changing, and want to prove to me he is a changing man and will be honest, responsible.

 

How do I believe him? He is a very handsome man, 10 year yonger than me, I do have sexual attraction by him, but i just feel he is not reliable. And his ex-wife (that korean woman) told me he said I am very old and not attractive. etc.

 

 

What is the right way I supposed to do? should I go back to him for kids' sake?

[beautifullove]

He's a loser! It's hard, but if you get back with him it will be ten times worse.

[notsureifright]

why?

 

please more details.

 

Any examples?

[notsureifright]

He kept calling me, and contact me. What i can do ?

[heartofstone]

I cannnot comphrehend how difficult it would be to be in your situation BUT please try to face the reality here. I know you want your children to have their daddy but WHAT kind of a man is he??!!

 

He has cheated before, I bet more than this once!

 

You are valuable enough to have a man who will be honest and faithful.

 

Having a man in your life, and in the house isn't all it's cracked up to be, you KNOW THIS ALREADY!

 

I understand your need to be cared for financially BUT if you can make it on your own, DO THAT!

 

The trade-offs are huge here. Is it worth it?

 

Wait until you find a man you can trust, who values you and REALLY cares for you. No man is better tan this dude.

 

...and, yes, I am hardhearted...

[notsureifright]

Yes, he actually cheated on that korean woman. After their baby was born, he got divorced with her , staying with another woman, while trying to reconsiliation with korean woman.

 

He is a white, and always say only attracted with asian woman.

 

I think he is a sick person, with mental issues.