troubadour Posted August 5, 2008 Posted August 5, 2008 A trip to Europe is always such a refreshing experience... you will like it.
Author Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 update It's October 1st, two months since she started calling and all has been great. NC with the friend didn't work out. She called and said she remembered nothing from the hospital conversations. I took this to mean that she didn't care what went on between MW and I and just wanted to stay friends, so we have, with no issues whatsoever. I did see MW. She showed up at my house three weeks ago. I just opened the door without even thinking and bam there she was. She said she just wanted to say hi but when I told her she needed to leave she freaked on me. Accused me of making her fall in love with me blah blah blah. I was like I thought you just wanted to say hi. Told her it was her problem now and if she came back I'd call the cops and tell them a married woman is harassing me. Haven't heard from her since. I'm having the best fall in years. Last year was totally trashed by being in love with her. A year of NC healed me and I'm just so happy EVERY DAY to have my life back! Thanks to all who helped me in August, and to all that posted in the last year with advice to others that I read and followed. I hope peace finds all those looking for it. In case I'm not back: Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas to you all!!!!!!!!!!! ps: happy Halloween too!!!
stampdaddy Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 update It's October 1st, two months since she started calling and all has been great. NC with the friend didn't work out. She called and said she remembered nothing from the hospital conversations. I took this to mean that she didn't care what went on between MW and I and just wanted to stay friends, so we have, with no issues whatsoever. I did see MW. She showed up at my house three weeks ago. I just opened the door without even thinking and bam there she was. She said she just wanted to say hi but when I told her she needed to leave she freaked on me. Accused me of making her fall in love with me blah blah blah. I was like I thought you just wanted to say hi. Told her it was her problem now and if she came back I'd call the cops and tell them a married woman is harassing me. Haven't heard from her since. I'm having the best fall in years. Last year was totally trashed by being in love with her. A year of NC healed me and I'm just so happy EVERY DAY to have my life back! Thanks to all who helped me in August, and to all that posted in the last year with advice to others that I read and followed. I hope peace finds all those looking for it. In case I'm not back: Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas to you all!!!!!!!!!!! ps: happy Halloween too!!! Hey, you forgot Festivus...
Author Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 Hey, you forgot Festivus...lol...I don't celebrate festivus since I broke my bestest festivus pole. You can get new ones here http://www.festivuspoles.com/pages/Festivuspoles.htm but you can't replace an original! ps: don't ask how i broke it!!
stampdaddy Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 lol...I don't celebrate festivus since I broke my bestest festivus pole. You can get new ones here http://www.festivuspoles.com/pages/Festivuspoles.htm but you can't replace an original! ps: don't ask how i broke it!! OK... so, how did you break your Festivus Pole?
Author Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 OK... so, how did you break your Festivus Pole?it's between me and the now broken pole! i still have the pole god gave me to demonstrate my feats of strength so not all is lost!!
Author Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 wanted to clarify one thing. i know it sounds mean that i treated her bad when she said i made her fall in love with me. i do actually sympathize with her on that. but i can't let her know that. so i'm not heartless, just being practical about the whole thing. i felt the best way to help her was to hurt her. she needs to move on and now maybe she can knowing i'm not out there still waiting for her. truth be told she gave me the best gift she ever could have ...a year of no contact. i mean that in the truest sense. why she went nc doesn't matter. she treated me better than a lot of mw treat the om in that sense. she didn't keep me on a string, and she'll never know it, but i respect her for that.
Sequoia Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Hey Diehard, I dont know the full story but the fact that you are so confused and feel like you are going to lose it if you call means you probably shouldn't. This is a test to see whether or not you are really healing or how far you have healed.Sometimes people like to toy with your pain to boost their ego.Dont be an ego trip for her..be one for yourself and boost your own ego and self esteem!
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