BigDreamer08 Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 So my guy went home to Boston till the 11th. I'm bummed because I didn't get to see him since Sunday. But before he left stupid drama stuff started happening, which is leaving me paranoid and worried. There is a friend of his who we will call Betty who lives in Boston, and (yes this is going to sound stupid and immature) shes been leaving comments on myspace that he belongs to her and hes her boyfriend and for me to beat it and respect that "he loves her". Hes a very loving person and open with his feelings, I mean for gosh sakes he tells my mother he loves her. So hes left comments like cant wait to get home, lovin' ya to her, etc... Now we've been dating for a only short time now, but pretty seriously. Hes already mentioned kids and marriage and that hes falling for me, calls me many times a day, and is very serious about how monogamous he is. Calls me "wife" and I'm always at his house when hes not working. But I don't know their past. She put a picture up of her and him standing next to each other at a bar last time he was there. But hes a very bold, honest, outspoken person, and if something was up I'm sure Id know about it by now. He hasn't given me any reasons to think hes lying. But from past experiences its hard to believe that he cant be lying (if that makes any sense). I think maybe I just need to take a chill pill. Wait out the 11 days and not read between the lines (not extensively anyways). Ive been cheated on more then once so Ive slowly learned how to home in on the bad behaviors. So maybe I'm just over thinking it, maybe there is something up. But I'm trying not be quick to judge and I will just let it play itself out. Am I completely insane? *Lies from others, cheated on by others
Jilly Bean Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 This is interesting. At the worst, he is either opening disrespecting you and cheating on you before your eyes, OR, he still has enough feelings for her to NOT stop her from leaving such public comments. Neither bodes well, IMO...
Author BigDreamer08 Posted August 3, 2008 Author Posted August 3, 2008 Yah, well as of right now, things seem ok. I miss him and he's in constant contact, calling or texting me, so at least hes not ignoring me, and seems just as affectionate. But right now Im keeping myself busy with friends, to keep my mind off of anything negative that my mind tends to do...
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