LolitaAnastasia Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 I just been having these thoughts for the past few minutes, My boyfriend and I were originally Friends with Benefits. However last year he went interstate and met a woman that he was chatting with online and he went head over heels for her. Truely bestottled with this wrench (she is 45, five kids and recovering heroin addict). When he left he told me that he was going to stay with a friend for few weeks, so I decided to put down my feelings for him and sent it via email. A few days later he sent a message to my cousin telling him how great this woman was in bed and that I was a crap root compared to this whore. I was crush. I sent an email to him telling him that he is a moron for saying such things about me, knowing full well that my cousin would tell me what he said. About a month later he returned to our town, talking to me as if nothing had happened. Actually all he did talk about was his whore and her family. He told me that he was going to go back, change his licence, registeration of the car and that his whore had arranged a job for him. All the while he knew my feelings for him. One time I yelled at him because he kept saying "The girl in Vic has got me a job." I said "She is not a girl, she is a mother of five and is a drug addict." By early January he seemed abit sullen about this woman, he kept quiet about her and then he started to hang around me a lot. Then one night we were watching dvds when he asked if he could stay over. I agreed as I thought he was going to sleep in the sparebed. Instead he slept beside me and then he hugged me in bed. I feel like he was seeing me as plan B. However now he is adimit that he is my boyfriend and I'm his girlfiend etc. I want to know how I can forget the episode with grandma whore? It is so hard to forget.
LoveLace Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Let him know you still hurt from the way he treated you then. It should get out in the open but don't let it turn into a shouting match. Talk in the most mature and calm manner as possible. Did he ever explain what happened with their relationship? Ask him why he suddenly decided is was about you now. You don't want him to be with you just because he was lonely or something.
JoeNewbie Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 We are all second to somebody else. It is time that ties people together (or drives them apart). Whether the situation is right depends on the way it makes you feel. If you are comfortable in this, the situation is just fine. If you feel like crap then you might want to reconsider it.
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