ste123ste Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Hello, I have been speaking to this girl online, msn to be exact, for a month or so now, and everything is going OK. However, she now wants to meet up and go out on a date, which i am up 4 however, I'm not the most confident person when it comes to face-to-face meetings with a girl, altho i am good at communicating online to her, also, from pictures i've seen of her, i would say, she is 'out of my league,' as she is a stunning girl, and i worry that the feeling isn't the same when she sees me, altho she has seen some photos of me online. What would you guys do...any help is wanted...thanks in advance.
btc8 Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Hello, I have been speaking to this girl online, msn to be exact, for a month or so now, and everything is going OK. However, she now wants to meet up and go out on a date, which i am up 4 however, I'm not the most confident person when it comes to face-to-face meetings with a girl, altho i am good at communicating online to her, also, from pictures i've seen of her, i would say, she is 'out of my league,' as she is a stunning girl, and i worry that the feeling isn't the same when she sees me, altho she has seen some photos of me online. What would you guys do...any help is wanted...thanks in advance. Instant messaging online tends to be a lot different from actual face-to-face or telephonic forms of communication. After meeting her, you may find that communicating online seems to be a lot easier than in person, but this is not always the case (though I have experienced it a few times). It may be that the person is shy in person (like you admit), which may create a few awkward gaps during the date. Have you spoken to her on the phone? Try asking for her number, and give her a call. Mix up your conversations between online and on the phone. At least by speaking to her on the phone a few times, it probably won't be as difficult as meeting her without being able to preempt her personality. But, on the flip side: if she asked to meet you, and she is still chatting with you online, there's an obvious interest
FlyByNite Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 If she's the one suggesting you meet up, then she is clearly interested in what she sees. This is a good thing . Meeting in person is the only way to tell if there's any mileage in this, but signs are good right now, so go in with confidence. I also second btc - give her a call, you can tell so much from hearing a person's voice. Good luck
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Hello, I have been speaking to this girl online, msn to be exact, for a month or so now, and everything is going OK. However, she now wants to meet up and go out on a date, which i am up 4 however, I'm not the most confident person when it comes to face-to-face meetings with a girl, altho i am good at communicating online to her, also, from pictures i've seen of her, i would say, she is 'out of my league,' as she is a stunning girl, and i worry that the feeling isn't the same when she sees me, altho she has seen some photos of me online. What would you guys do...any help is wanted...thanks in advance. The way in which you get more confident with meeting up with women face to face is by...... meeting up with them
lino Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 The way in which you get more confident with meeting up with women face to face is by...... meeting up with them simple as that
SilkLeaves Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Treat it like you're complete strangers - like you've never had an online conversation before. Her personality could be completely different in real life, and you might be disappointed when you meet for real and vice versa. There might be a lot of awkward pauses. How about you ask her to bring a friend, and you bring a friend, then go out as a four? Then, if you get on well with her, ask to go out just the two of you next time. That might stop any awkwardness.
Amiss Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 Try to relax and just treat it as a normal date. If she has seen your picture and has asked to meet , she must like the look of you so stop worrying. She will probably lead the conversation anyway!
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