Keridan Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 I'll tell you what .. I really don't miss dating one bit. I'm glad you had at least one good experience lately. There are more out there when yer ready for it. I figgered the boys had to have something going for them. Too bad you can't pick and choose the attributes from each and make your own, eh? And you're welcome. The compliment was quite sincere
MarisaCraig Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 Yes, he sure didn't care about baseball that's for sure! That's DEFINITELY NOT why he contacted you since I noticed when you talked baseball back, all he could fixate on was you deleting him! What did he expect? No guy who pulls that should be able to make his way back into your life that easily! His loss!!!
The Collector Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 Jeez, he's just joking around. You're blowing it up into being negative because your interested in a rematch and want to convince yourself he has stuff to prove to win you back. Maybe he does, but there's nothing egregious about that text exchange.
sfsassy Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 LOL, Jack! Man, after all this time and how ugly it was, if he was interested, I think he should have been a little more contrite rather than whining about how he had been deleted. You dated my ex, lol. That boy wouldn't know contrite if it hit him in the head, with a baseball bat. (Thought you might like that analogy:)
Angel1111 Posted August 3, 2008 Posted August 3, 2008 It always amazes me when guys come back out of the blue like that. Most of the time it's flattering - until they do something like this. His reaction proved that all he really wanted to know is if you deleted him from your phone or not. And then, nothing.....so what's the deal? - is he talking a poll or something?
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 3, 2008 Author Posted August 3, 2008 His reaction proved that all he really wanted to know is if you deleted him from your phone or not. And then, nothing.....so what's the deal? - is he talking a poll or something? Exactly! It was like he contacted me with some random comment, then totally fixated on me having deleted him from my phone (as Marisa and others have commented). Why not just move beyond it? His reaction made him look TOTALLY bizarre and childish. Wonder if he knows that? Or cares? lol I dated another guy (one date) last December (coincidentally, RIGHT after Justin, to the point that I complained to him about Justin's behavior - shows guys are all on a 6-9 month rebound schedule - lol). It ended because he was WAY too young for me, yet still a nice guy. But, an ending is an ending, and we stopped talking entirely. He also was deleted from the phone. He contacted me recently (about two weeks ago). I responded as I did to this guy, with a "who's this?" Well, he responded with his name, and how we had first met. We then continued texting, and moved to IM to catch up. He didn't have some huge meltdown on me and tantrum because I had deleted his number. In fact, it never came up again. JUSTIN, I don't get. Well, I guess I do. Perhaps he felt the fact that he still had my number, and I had long since erased his, showed the disparity in interest. Perhaps he was just trying to flatter himself, and expected after all this time I was still waiting on his contact. Most likely he thought his re-emergence is my life would be so anticipated, welcomed and embraced, that it would be like the second coming. What's funny is that when I split from someone, I tend to be filled with remorse and regret. UNTIL they do something like this and remind me that I made the right decision. SF - cute analogy.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 You should have texted to him: "Hold On..giving new bf a bj. Be back in a few. TTFN."
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 5, 2008 Author Posted August 5, 2008 You should have texted to him: "Hold On..giving new bf a bj. Be back in a few. TTFN." Ha ha! Well, we had texted what, on the 31st? I had asked him at one point if he had made it to the Superbowl (he was talking about going when we dated). This MORNING, about 7:15AM, he texts me with a reply. Like WTF???
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