Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 I dated this guy last Fall. We went out twice, things got dicey on the second date, and then we just had a horrible ending to it all. I tried at the time to resurrect it, and he would have no part of it, and pretty much ignored me. Life moved on, and I haven't heard from him since. Until today. The following text exchange occurred (keep in mind - I honestly had NO idea who was writing me, as I had deleted his number a LONG time ago): Him: So what do u think, trade Manny or not? I say trade his sorry ass! Me: Who is this? Him: Never mind i was apparently deleted, sorry to have bothered you. Me: ? I lost my addy book. who is this? Him: Justin from XYZ and XYZ. Me: Oh yeah. u were deleted. lol. i just got back from boston last nite! saw 2 of the yanks games. EVERYONE in bos wants him out. I say dump his ass! Him: See i knew i was deleted. Me: Y would that surprise you tho? Why waste my time like this? He thinks he can text me after NC of like 10 months, and I'm going to be all excited to hear from him after he hosed me? Notice how even though I tried to talk baseball, he was still stuck on me having deleted him from my phone. Er, I don't keep numbers of people I don't actively talk with! What a weinie.
JackJack Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 When he said, "See I knew I was deleted." You should have said, "Yep, bye bye."
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 LOL, Jack! Man, after all this time and how ugly it was, if he was interested, I think he should have been a little more contrite rather than whining about how he had been deleted.
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 He just wrote me: Didn't surprise me at all. Still - a weinie! Thing is, besides our falling out, I really did like him. But now that he contacted me, I am kinda hating on him all over again, since I am remembering how cruel he was in ignoring me.
Keridan Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 If yer hating on him again, text this "Speaking of sports, you wouldn't believe how much better my new bf is in bed. I mean ... WOW!" J/K of course
JackJack Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 He just wrote me: Didn't surprise me at all. Still - a weinie! Thing is, besides our falling out, I really did like him. But now that he contacted me, I am kinda hating on him all over again, since I am remembering how cruel he was in ignoring me. You're better off Jilly. Just keep reminding yourself of that, and you'll be ok.
Keridan Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Jilly, do you think he texted to see if you still have feelings for him or something? That original message seems pretty darn random after so long. Maybe you should ignore him?
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 Jilly, do you think he texted to see if you still have feelings for him or something? That original message seems pretty darn random after so long. Maybe you should ignore him? Yes, I do! I mean, even when I told him he was deleted, yet I gave my baseball opinion (which is supposedly what he asked me about initially!), he kept harping on being deleted. It seemed to me like he thought that after all this time, he would write me, and I would first off know who it was, and that I would welcome him with open arms. Er, no. He SO could have played this better. He's still a weinie. And I like your "dig". Though, I would have just told him I have a BF (even though I don't) JJ - yep - better off without...
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 oh well! Move on! make sure you block him completely next time!
Keridan Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 I almost removed that post cuz I was afraid it might have been offensive Some boyz got no skills. I'm sure you know how much better off you are without this guy. I really really think he's hoping you forgot he was a jerk, tho. Not sure how you could, but some guys will try anyway. Just laugh at him and ignore him. Kinda like you already seem to be doing
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 II'm sure you know how much better off you are without this guy. I really really think he's hoping you forgot he was a jerk, tho. And if he didn't re-emerge as such a tool today, I may have forgotten! lol. Seriously, if he hadn't of been such a weinie, I (stupidly) would have been open to talking to him. He showed himself WAY too soon this time, and (thankfully) did remind me of why it didn't work out the first time!
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 You should text him back and say "Oh baby! I want you so bad too! I'll meet you tonight!" then type "Whoops! Wrong text window!" and block him for good!
Krytie TV Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Why do I get the feeling that within 1 month you will be dating this guy again? It's almost completely transparent.
johan Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Is it wrong to assume that by "ending badly" you got a little freaky on him when he tried to end things? Maybe showed up crying at his office a few times or something? Otherwise, I agree with you. If he wants to re-open the lines of communication with the intent to get you into bed, he should be a bit smoother.
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 maybe he wanted an ego boost of being liked!
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 Is it wrong to assume that by "ending badly" you got a little freaky on him when he tried to end things? Maybe showed up crying at his office a few times or something? Otherwise, I agree with you. If he wants to re-open the lines of communication with the intent to get you into bed, he should be a bit smoother. Oh god, no. LOL. It ended badly because I broke up with him after he did something stupid, then tried to talk it out with him. He was too bitter and angry to even talk to me at that point, so he ignored me. I moved on, and got involved with someone else 2 weeks later. Never looked back. We never had sex, Johan, so this was not about trying for a "booty call". lol. Man - you're not quite yourself today...
johan Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 It was a simple question. You were vague in your description. Glad I'm not a wienie.
Author Jilly Bean Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 It was a simple question. You were vague in your description. Glad I'm not a wienie. It wasn't a question, it was a slam.
johan Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 It was not, silly woman. It was a joke. You were supposed to find it funny.
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 1, 2008 Author Posted August 1, 2008 It was not, silly woman. It was a joke. You were supposed to find it funny. I'm sorry, my darling. The Bean has completely (obviously) lost all humor these days. I'm a shell, I tell you, a shell!
2sunny Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 for some reason i thought this thread may have been about the cop-bi dude... i can't keep all your men straight JB - ooops... no pun intended. still:lmao:
Keridan Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 for some reason i thought this thread may have been about the cop-bi dude... i can't keep all your men straight JB - ooops... no pun intended. still:lmao: There's a bulliten board with diagrams and charts over by the coping room. Just go past the coffee pot and turn right, there is a whole wall dedicated to it. You can't miss it!
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 1, 2008 Author Posted August 1, 2008 for some reason i thought this thread may have been about the cop-bi dude... i can't keep all your men straight JB - ooops... no pun intended. still:lmao: LOL! No kidding. It's been a BAD stretch lately. Never heard back from bi-cop (besides his lame excuses about being BUSY - pfft), then this tool writes me after 10 months and somehow is offended that I deleted his number after all this time, and wasn't THRILLED to hear from him - as if I should have been waiting by the phone in celibacy. And then the Baller engagement. KERIDAN - I'm going to start one BITTER thread where I will out and trash all my recent aborted paramour pursuits. I'll include a power point, too.
Keridan Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 Are these guys damn good looking or something? How do they keep all this going? You seem so smart and together and yet you get a string of these guys ...
Author Jilly Bean Posted August 1, 2008 Author Posted August 1, 2008 Are these guys damn good looking or something? How do they keep all this going? You seem so smart and together and yet you get a string of these guys ... Bi-cop is EXCEPTIONALLY attractive. Like 1 percentile hot. Not to mention he is an incredible lay. Beyond that, he's one hot mess. Baller is VERY handsome. Justin was not attractive at all, but he was funny and had a great personality. Which clearly has been erased in the last year. Me? I'm hoping it's a low bio-rhythm month. I DID have a wonderful date last weekend while on vacation. Of course, he lives 3k miles away, but it was still nice to be treated well for a change! Thanks for the compliment, btw...
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