RestlessInDenver Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Okay, my first post here. Here's some background of me: I have been single for 2 years this Aug/September. My ex and I were engaged at the very end for two months of our 4.5+ years of dating/living together. I was 21 when I started the relationship and it was my first real one. Before him, I only dated people for about 2/3/4 months. I also had a great relationship with him...just no passion. When I started to plan the wedding, I would cry, so in a short explanation I ended it in Aug/Sept of 2006. I then went crazy. Having fun, enjoying myself, and even started doing the online dating thing since July/Aug of last year 2007. So, now the present... I just moved/relocated to Colorado. I have done this before relocation from KS to AZ when I was 18, fell into a relationship about the same time 1-2 months of living there and that didn't work out because it was a financial dependency and he was jealous. AZ to NM falling into my ex-fiance relationship around a year and half of living there. Now, the present I relocated at the end of May to CO. About 3/4 weeks of living here, I meet this guy at the club...we have similar interests: computers, music, and just our down to earthness. We end up starting to date about 2 days before 4th of July. It's like being in high school over again. Because of our situation: I'm living with a friend, he's living with his mom because his ex-roomie got him evicted. So, no physical intimacy yet, which is fine, just interesting to have a guy interested in me versus my recent past experiences. We just started our new positions last week at the same pay. It's weird, to have someone who gets me on a level I have never felt before even when I wasn't with my ex...believe me I am over him, I just feel that so many of my past dating has been feeling like all the guys want to just get me in bed, trust me he/I are not prudes, just not the right timing. So, here I am at the point of my life loving that he just called me his girlfriend today. Is that weird? Do you think we are moving too fast by calling each other each others gf and bf? That we are talking about the future? This is so new territory for me. It feels right, it in no way feels weird, just weird in the sense of most guys just want that one thing, and now I think I found someone who shares my views on most ideas.
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 can't really judge how fast things move for couples! every one is different! If it feels too fast for you, it probably is! Common Sense!
Author RestlessInDenver Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 can't really judge how fast things move for couples! every one is different! If it feels too fast for you, it probably is! Common Sense! It doesn't feel like we are moving fast, I just read those dating articles and I start to over analyze kinda like the hypochondriac stuff when I am sick. It feels right, the relationship. So, we will see, I am hopeful.
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 It doesn't feel like we are moving fast, I just read those dating articles and I start to over analyze kinda like the hypochondriac stuff when I am sick. It feels right, the relationship. So, we will see, I am hopeful. If it feels right, don't worry about it! I think you are over thinking things!!! Its good you consider other points of view, but learn on your own!! Get a balance of knowledge: yours and others! But i say do what you want within reason!
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