sam123 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 can someone please help me with my recent breakup. My wife left me 3 years ago taking our 5 year old daughter with he I came home from work one day and she told me she didnt love me anymore and it was over I was more upset about my my daughter than my wife as we both had demanding jobs and rearly seen each other.so I thought ok and just got on with it I have my daughter 3 nights a week and relations are good, I had known a good friend through work for 8 years never any sexual thing but she really helped me through the break up. 1 year later her 2nd marriage broke up she is 30 and I was in a position to help her one thing led to another and we ended up dating. I feel head over heels in love with her I know people say this but it did show me I had never been in love before we had a fantastic 14 months then my ex told me my daughter was playing up because she did not like her i panicked and ended the relationship. i begged her in march to come back made some promises and regretably did not deliver.we have been back and forth since then but she recently told me it is over I have made a fool of myself calling texting and emailing as I wanted her to know I was willing to do what ever it took to get her back.i love her more than anything else in the world and now i have lost her i was told today she was sleeping with 3 other people in the time we were together but i would still take her back in a heartbeat. i feel i have let her down badly when she needed me most and i cant get it through to her that i will never let her down again but i dont want to keep contacting her as i feel this is just driving her further away. i am one of these people who try to please everyone and in doing so i have lost the one person i have ever truly loved any advice would be greatly received. thanks
timmay Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 im not exactly sure what to tell you bro. I have feelings for my ex just like u in that i love her so much even if she does get with other dudes i would still take her back. I would suggest though concentrating on your relationship with your daughter first then going on with getting back with your ex. wish u the best
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