nopainnogain Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Friendzone them before they friendzone you:p What do you all think:confused:
Author nopainnogain Posted August 14, 2008 Author Posted August 14, 2008 Its been working for me. I friendzoned 2 different girls and now they want more. I wont give in though.
carhill Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 The only way to effectively friendzone a female is if you have no attraction for them. If other, you will always lose
Author nopainnogain Posted August 14, 2008 Author Posted August 14, 2008 I have attraction . I just keep my eyes on the prize . M.O.B. I just flip the script on them thats all.
Mahatma Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Your title said "counter." Friend zoning them first is NOT a "counter."
likestolaugh Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 we friendzoned each other at the exact same moment (seriously). I'll see how this works out. anyway, whatever.
Water Tiger 08 Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Sounds like your fighting them instead of dating them; you're tone is distinctly adversarial. Water
carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Might work for ONS/FWB/STR but real risky with a woman who is LTR/marriage material. Good way to end up alone and wondering why your entrails are protruding
Author nopainnogain Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 Im not fighting no one. I am not looking for a relationship thats why this works. Ill go on dates and all that jazz but I am not gonna simp over any woman. You can have all the friends in the world but ultimatly we are all alone regardless. Born into this world alone,go through lifes journey alone making our OWN decisions ,and die alone. I have a vast family and a plethera of friends . But no one can ever love me like I love myself
Author nopainnogain Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 we friendzoned each other at the exact same moment (seriously). I'll see how this works out. anyway, whatever. give us some updates please when you can lol
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Friendzone them before they friendzone you:p What do you all think:confused: Nothing I'd do. But while you're in this experimental mode how about walking up to a random woman,, intoroduce yourself and tell her that she looks like someone who could become your best friend for life. Then let us know what happens.... cheers.
likestolaugh Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 give us some updates please when you can lol well you can have a bit more info by looking at some of my previous posts... the only thing I didn't mention was my part in friendzoning her....
D-Jam Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Friendzone them before they friendzone you:p What do you all think:confused: Don't accept the friendzone from someone you want to be more than friends with. You meet girl, you both talk, click, you see her a few times, then suddenly she hits you with "Let's Just Be Friends". If you're not emotionally invested in all this, think she's cool anyway, then be her friend, but then friendzone her as well...meaning don't make yourself her backup plan in life if she never finds the guy she really wants. I seem to have several female friends who FZed me from the get-go, then came back years later with a child, deadbeat dad, and looked to me to take care of her in life. UM...NO. Also, don't let them make you their crying blanket and backup date when she has no BF. So she rejects you to chase jerks, then comes crying to you about her poor choices...don't sit there and console. Be blunt or walk away and let her deal with her own BS. She rejected you to chase others, but now has no man and needs a date to not look like a loser at the wedding, unless you like weddings, don't go. I know I sound mean, but when you have opposite gender friends, you need at times to draw some clear lines so one or the other person isn't trying to get more out of you than a friend would give, but yet they won't take things to a new level. Seen many times where the guy is practically her boyfriend, but she won't kiss him, have sex with him, and will tell everyone "he's just a friend". Seen even one instance where the guy friend was taking her out on dates, talking deep with her, cuddling with her....but she went home to the guy she called "boyfriend" and had sex with that guy. This also means you BOTH be GOOD FRIENDS to one another. So if you suddenly know a guy you think she would like, introduce them. Likewise, if she's got hot single friends, she should hook you up as well. Seen cases where the girl literally keeps the guy friend single so she has her doormat, not wanting to share him with anyone else. It's pathetic. NOW...taking this back to the "Let's Just Be Friends" moment, if you feel more emotionally invested and can't fathom her as just a friend...then respectfully say no and move on. If she gives you crap for that, pulling out the usual "how could you fathom being my boyfriend if you won't even be my friend??" excuse, then just smile and tell her if she saw you as a potential BF, then she wouldn't be saying that we should be just friends. Tell her then you're out to find a girl to date and be in a RL with...and you're not wasting your time here.
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