HopeDiesLast Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 if my bf ended it with me, but the problem was really him....being immature and committment-phobe and doubting us....i shouldnt contact him, right? i should wait till he calls me or trys to contact me? i read somewhere on here about setting them free and if they come back they are yours....i should set him free, correct? now im all confused as to if he tried to set me free to see if i go back? Help....maybe its my mind playing tricks on me.
dead-dyke Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 You're theory is correct, in that not to contact him - He didn't st you free because you were not trying to get out, right? It's his job entirely to come to you to make amends. Not yours. Good luck.
babes23 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 I wouldn't contact him either, try to move on with your life.
justaman99 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 I would agree. If he broke up with you why put the effort in to get back together? It was his choice. Move on and let him figure himself out on his own. -Just
Author HopeDiesLast Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 Yeah but what if he never does? There's a sobering thought. It makes me so sad and i want it to make me angry so i can just be strong in my anger and move forward! instead im sad and stuck.
justaman99 Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Yeah but what if he never does? There's a sobering thought. It makes me so sad and i want it to make me angry so i can just be strong in my anger and move forward! instead im sad and stuck. There's a definite chance he never will. That is life. Right now you're going through the stages. I went from sad, to desperate, to angry, to sad again, to forgiving and today, well, I think I'm just starting to look forward. I don't think about her all day everyday anymore, I sleep better and I am dating a little bit. I am exhausted to be honest. Tired of thinking about everything over and over again. I know how much I put into it and if she wants to throw it all away that's her choice. I know she misses me and I know I treated her very well. Not much else I can do except learn and move on. I'm through hoping, and wondering and praying and I am definitely not putting myself out there again. Why should I? It just takes time. Yeah part of me is still healing but I'm better today then I was yesterday, than the day before. The pain in the loss doesn't last forever. Get ready for hell and emotion. Sorry but it's true. -Just
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