smurfsrcute Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 eh. sometimes i hate guys.. they tend to be soooo confusing. ok, so there is this one guy that i met on myspace. and him and i have alot in common; the only problem is that he is quieter, kinda keeps to himself. when we first met, he said i was hot, and i thought nothing of it. i mean, he's a guy.. duh. and after a month or two, i had dyed my hair and stuff, and he began to show interest... saying we should hang, giving me his number, and he began to comment my pics. why is this such a big deal? well, he really isn't the type to do that.. just with a selected few. and in the last month, ive met him, and we've mentioned hanging out a few times, but nothing so far. he's really busy, cuz he's in a band.. and works, so he doesn't have that much time on his hands. lately, tho, ive been worried. ive sent him a message a week ago, to which he responded.. but just once.. and him and i haven't talked at all in a week. he's like never online; he used to be online alot.... but he's commented a pic, but thats it.. i asked him when we are going to chill, but he read the message, just never responded. im going insane because i really really am into this guy. and i don't usually like guys.. tho he's an exception and idk why. im worried that he is losing interest in me.. is there anything i can do to gain it bak? i feel like a dope sending him messages that he never responds to.. mainly because i send them right when he's signing off.. making it so he doesn't see that i sent him a message. and no its not intentional.. i just have bad timing.. lol. its really hard to tell wats on his mind cuz he's so to himself. idk, maybe im freaking out.. maybe he's into me, but is just busy. he doesn't seem to be talking to anyone.. but still... input please!!!! im going insane.
brothermartin Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Being a man, I can say honestly, the only times a man plays hard-to-get is if he's been hurt badly, if he's really self-absorbed, or if he's hiding something. We're really not confusing.
stefspets Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Usually guys that are interested make time to see you. He doesn't sound interested to me--if that's the case, you can't change his mind. You've already sent him multiple messages that he hasn't answered. Don't send him any more!
foreverlove06 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 There are plenty of fish in the sea.... Or so i am told.
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