LoyalGirl Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 Same crazy text messaging H story here... same exact stories... I HATE cliches!
Angel1111 Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 Honestly, I think you're being naive. I hate to say that but this sudden turnaround from him is either fake, or the girl dumped him and he's trying to figure out how to get her back, but he's also sulking and now talking to you. If he has stopped talking to her, it probably won't last. When people are connected like that, the majority of the time they do not just cut it off and walk away without a whole lot more conversation. You need to be very careful here and while I'm sure you're happy that he's talking to you about it, I think he's got another motive - to throw you off-track. Please stop making excuses for him about how he doesn't communicate or anything else. And I wouldn't be so quick to feel grateful that he's opening up in this begrudging or limited manner. From the outside looking in, I'm not convinced or impressed. The one thing that stood out to me is that he 'admitted that he was attracted to her'. Huh??? Of course he was!!! Was that ever in question? It's stuff like that that gets my radar up. I don't know what prompted that statement to begin with but it sounds like it was preceded by a lie. Just please be careful and don't be too quick to accept him back. He has hurt you a lot and don't teach him that he can do that and expect you to be grateful when he decides to start telling partial truths.
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