vivrantflo Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 I work in the shipping industry, and two weeks ago my buddy comes up to me in the middle of the shift and says.. "Hey dude, you're gonna love me! I just about set you up on a date!" me- "Bud, what are you talking about?" Then he says he'd tell me later. At our workplace, there was a new hire for a security guard, and that position was taken by a very beautiful, single young lady. She's so gorgeous.. European.. her skin is so fair people mistake her for mulatto. See at our work place, we are wanded down by our security before we enter the premises. So everyone sees her everyday. My work place is also predominantly male.. so whenever a new female is hired, they are ALL on her like flies on $h!t. My buddy had conversation with her, and found out she is single.. Told her that he has a buddy that's single.. great personality, fun.. and he can see us meshing really well. Once she found out it was me, she was somewhat interested, cause she thought I was cute, and I was like the only guy that never made a pass at her. Why she was somewhat interested, is because she was instructed by her boss NOT to become friends with anyone that works for the company im at. Naturally she was apprehensive, but interested none the less... To make the story short, we exchanged phone numbers, and kept communication on the down low. She didn't want people to know that we were hanging out, and I respected that. I didn't want her to lose her job over me. Things were going amazingly smooth. Since none of us did any pursuing, it was fun to hang out, and get to know each other. At my workplace, we are not allowed to have cell phones in the building... and we had got to the point where she would encourage me to sneak my celly in, so we could text each other throughout the night. I thought things were going well. Well, today, she hits me up on msn, and informs me that there are other employees that are trying to hook her up with someone OTHER employee. She asks me if this other employee has a woman..( she asked cause she knows that 90% of the guys that hit on her at work, are taken men..) I answered her yes, cause he does. She gets annoyed at the fact that people there are so morally incorrect, and then tells me that we are better off being friends! WTF?!?!?!? She tells me that it's not me.. and that my friend was right.. I was everything she was asking for in a potential BF, but the circumstance of her job, wouldnt allow her to explore a possibility of us more. I respected her decision.. she asked me not to be mad at her.. i told her I have no reason to be angry. And that was it. I just don't get it. None of us asked to be hooked up. We actually hang out and mesh... she was telling me just last night how she's lookin forward to us going out on the weekend. Beggs me to sneak my cell phone in.. texts me like 3865763753 times a night. Just to cut it off like that. What would make a girl do a 180 like that?? I was thinking she may be into that other coworker.. but she says she isnt, and the fact that he has a woman speaks volumes of his character... so I dont know. All I want to do is move on with my life. I don't even persue anybody, but disappointment seems to follow me everywhere... What gives?? Any thoughts??
Chrome Barracuda Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Let it go. your gonna go crazy trying to figure it out!!! lol.
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