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Ok, for starters... I think I may very well be in a rebound relationship with someone who is a good friend of mine. I think I am his rebound. Anywho... His ex wife cheated on her first husband to be with him (my current bf who is a long distance bf for the meantime until I am able to move there). So... they were married for 5 years but together for a total of 7 years. They have 2 sons together, but she has another son from the previous marriage.

 

I guess with me being long distance from him, I am beginning to feel a little insecure because I know that they are still good friends with one another - which i knew already before we became romantically involved because he and I are also good friends.

 

She ended up cheating on him (go figure) with her now current bf whom she is living with and has been living with now for more than a year.

 

So.... my bf and his ex have not been together for a matter of more than a year. At first he told me that he would NEVER go back to her. But now I feel like the rebound and maybe he has realized what he has lost with her because I know he still has love for her being they share a history and children, and plus they still talk all the time as friends.

 

I care about him deeply and am considering backing off because I don't feel loved by him because I feel like the "rebound" and I don't want to ruin our friendship and feel that if I continue this - things could get ugly and bitterness might fall into play and the freindship will be forever tainted... we have known each other 16 years but romantically involved for 6 months.

 

I just feel that if he goes back to her... she will hurt him again... I care for him and that's a concern of mine. Given her history... would you say that it's more than likely she would do it again??? The only thing though is that the next time around, i will and might not be there for him as his "rebound"... i'll be his emotional support - but he might regret what he lets slip away (me) if he'd go back to her... I feel so bad :(

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